Marriage is a barrier to sex, its ties down people's live, its slavery, becuase it limits sex, single is the democracy we need, you have sex anytime and life is about enjoyment, marriage, therefore does not support that, so single, sex, seductive, smart those are the new brands.
2006-07-11 04:15:57 · 34 answers · asked by --------------- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Totally disagree. You just arent doing it right. m
2006-07-11 04:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree totally with u. Marriage is between two people who are willing to share all joys and sorrows. There are cases where sex is limited say indian marriages for exaple or some which involved the orthodox traditions but as long as u can express what u want to ur partner there's it goes. It's only a lack of communication that makes it so difficult. Understanding should be there.
Pre marital sex and being single is more common nowadays. It's so because female litteracy has been on a rise and there are very few cases where people esp gals) get married at an early age. Maybe that's why sex comes first.
Besides having a family people are more concerned about their other ambitions and struggle for a better future before settling down.
This is what i believe.
2006-07-11 04:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Achiever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. Marriage could be incredibly fulfilling. It just need to be the right combination. All of the sex, seductive, smart brands could actually be tremendously enhanced in a good relationship. Marriage shouldn't limit sex at all, on the contrary, would make it much more rich, diverse and special. Sharing sexual experiences with somebody you have very strong and long emotional connection it's SO much more special than having the same sexual experiences as a single. The tricky part is to find the right person to share all these with. I am very happy and grateful to have found that person, and believe me it's SOOOO much better than being single. There is NO comparison!
2006-07-11 04:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Style 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very easy to Misconstrue the meaning of enjoyment, single, sex, seductive, smart, democracy (in conjunction with relationships). Just because you commit yourself to another person doesnt mean that you can't keep your identity. A lot of peopel use everything u said as an excuse to be promiscuos to have an ecuse for having casual random sex....I believe in true love and respect and in monogamy! Opinions like yours are the reason for STD's, broken hearts and homes. arte you planning on having children? How would you raise your daughter son? Don't you believe in family! It's a sad world we live in now days! i think that we should preserve some key elements like family marriage and raising children in a happy home. i think the marriage model should be thought over meaning there shouldbe more individuality, don't suffacate your partner, have a life, but be loyal & honest & respectful and loving to that one man in your life! Ugh! I don't like pro just have sex for fun campaigns, sex is fun granted, but sex is really fun when you love that person 7 they know you so well they can get under your skin & drive you crazy! So you are crazy in love! Go love lol
2006-07-11 04:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, according to statistics, married people have sex 3-4 times as often as single people, on the average. Either way can be beneficial, however, one you need a divorce to get out of and the other is a clean getaway. Also, when you're single, you're too busy working all the time to make ends meet. Married people have to do it too, but there's TWO of them to bring home the bacon, therefore, more time to get their freak on!
2006-07-11 04:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by dark_storm73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I disagree. Marriage is a good thing! IT only keeps people from having sex, if they choose to wait. It's all a matter of choice. And it's something I want. But so far the only possiblity for a wife, is a Russian lady. I have feelings for her, but I do have mixed feelings about it.
2006-07-11 04:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree.
I've been married 14 years and enjoy a much more active sex life then I did as a single person.
Second, where do children fit into this utopian equation? They are after all frequently a by-product of sex.
2006-07-11 04:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two becomes one, one ceases to be. Marrage is a one personallity thing which causes hard feelings if both people want to retain their own personallity. If they can become one then there is less problems and the relationship may hopfully last long enough to raise children. The person that suggests marrage should be the one to surrender their will to the other.
2006-07-11 04:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ibredd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think honestly that this is what God wants? I wonder what you all think the major problem in this world is, because that is definetly up on the charts! Please understand, that this is a sin, just like so many other things, and therefore God will forgive you for this,
just ask him, because living a pure life is so much better for you, and God, who wants you to have one! Although sinning is still part of being a human and even after becoming a christian you still do, you are forgiven, and he Loves you anyway! Please take this opportunity, you won't regret it!
2006-07-11 04:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont agree, marriage is not outdated and never will be. Who wants to be single just so they can have sex...you can get plenty of sex with marriage, the only difference is you can sleep with just anyone but your spouse
2006-07-11 04:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are new to this site....otherwise, you would know apparently it does not curtail your sexual exploitations....however, it should, and why not....you marry the woman/man you love, you have most likely had sex with her before, and know she is all you want.....why go exploring anymore.....she is the best you have ever had, and now you are willing to risk it for something you are not sure about? Good, turn away a steak for a possibility of something better....and you will end up with a cow patty most likely
2006-07-11 04:20:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋