I have been dating this guy for 2 years and I have just bought a place of my own, it is really nice and just right for the both of us, but.... Is it wrong for us to move in together b 4 marriage or should we to see what we are getting ourselves into and to get a taste of what marriage is like? Some ppl say we should and others say we should not! What do you think?
2006-07-11 04:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say you should because it could be a great life lesson.
2006-07-11 04:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by babyjay_babyjae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of young people move in together now-a-days before marriage. Since you say you have bought the house, is your young man going to split the expenses with you? I feel that he should and this should be discussed before any moving is done on his part. I hope he doesn't just plan on living off of you. There are a lot of guys (girls, too) that move in with their bf/gf only to think that they are supposed to be there rent free and not help pay for utilities, phone, groceries, or anything else. Please don't put yourself in that situation. In this case, I believe you should think about yourself first. Get it put down in writing about splitting expenses. I hope this helps.
2006-07-11 11:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live with my man and we are not married, who cares what people think, if you want to take the step than go for it, its your decision not anybody else's. The way I look at it, is If for some reason it didnt work out, id rather know before getting married, this could break you up or make your relationship stronger, either way I would want to know. So its really up to you
2006-07-11 11:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to the both of you. If you both agree and do not have a problem with it then move in together.
2006-07-11 11:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by sleeplessdreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more importain waht do you think if you and your bf what to move in and you feel its the right thing then do so but if you feel other wish then dont this is something that the two of you are going to have to talk it out its you 2 not every body else ok
2006-07-11 11:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its wrong..me and my bf have been living together over a yr now and its been goin good...i think it gives you both a good insight to the other...i wouldnt care what other ppl thought...its none of their business
2006-07-11 11:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by ozzkat2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say it's a good idea, it gives u an idea of what a marriage would b like
2006-07-11 11:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should so you can get a taste
of how marriage might be like,and if you
do,you could also learn to tolerate the
guy you live with.
2006-07-11 11:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live together first,
youmight not be compatable in that way
besides, it will be cheaper for both of you
2006-07-11 11:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by satanmonsterlord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always prefer the "Try before you buy!" option.
2006-07-11 11:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by ʎǝ1ʇʇnɯ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋