Well, i have this boyfriend who doesnt really act like my boyfriend, and he is only nice to me sometimes,but he isnt nice to my girls and i really wanna break up with him, but i cant break up with him cause it will break his heart, and im not like that.....HELP ME!!!
2006-07-11 03:55:58 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By girls, i'm assuming you mean kids?
who is more important?
your kids, or some dumb boy?
dump him, who cares how he feels. You shouldn't be unhappy just to save someone else from feeling the same!
2006-07-11 03:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by whoanelly00 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world are you with someone who, is sometimes nice to you, sometimes acts like your boyfriend? did you ever look at like that would make him sometimes mean, sometimes not acting like your boyfriend, sometimes cheats, sometimes hurts me, Its pretty self explanatory, common sense says. He isnt the one, how would it break his heart, if he's mean to? that obviously means he doesnt like you as much as you think and maybe his behavior is for a reason, to push you away, maybe hes thinking the same thing: maybe he wont break up with you bc he thinks it will break your heart? DUMP him, you can be mean or nice about it, but Break it off already
2006-07-11 04:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have been in your situation before so i do know how this is. First of all I do believe by "my girls" u mean like your friends. NOT your kids. You shouldn't put up with him not acting like a boyfriend and not being nice. You could find someone way better! I mean i dumped my guy (who was like that) and then i met a new guy who was 4 times hotter and a billion times more boyfriend like and nice. He was nice to my friends too. AND we have been together for a while now too. all that could happen to u too! so f*ck the god damn *** hole!
2006-07-11 04:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a boyfriend who doesn't treat you like his girlfriend and he's not nice to you all the time and is mean to your friends, and you're worried about hurting HIS feelings? Puh-lease! Don't worry about his feelings as he's obviously not at all concerned with yours. Don't stay in this waste of a relationship. You'll be better off on your own so that you can be free to meet someone who will be nice to you ALL the time, nice to your friends and act like a boyfriend should. Good luck!
2006-07-11 03:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not nice to you and doesn't act like a boyfriend, how are you convinced his heart is in the relationship? I think you should just tell him that you think that you guys should see other people and break up with him.
2006-07-11 03:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by housefullofboys3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably doesnt act like your boyfriend because he feels comfortable with you. so he may not think that holding your hand, or buying you a rose is anything but for you it would be nice for the little things to happen. when you say "isnt nice to your girls" if its your children you are talking about, he's not worth it and you should break up with him. if its about your girl friends, then it doesnt matter.
2006-07-11 03:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your heart is telling you no and he is mean to your children, do everyone a favor and end it now. The deeper you get into this relationship the more harm it could cause everyone. I'm sure you are worried about his feelings but it seems like he does not share the same level of love as you do towards him. He will be alright and you have to ask yourself. Is he worth putting you and your girls through the pain?
2006-07-11 04:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whats right for you and him- stop leading him on, its better to end it now then wait a few more weeks, months, years, before you decide the break the news to him that you dont feel the same for him. That way both of you can move on with your lives. Heart break or not, it has to be done.
2006-07-11 03:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you say HE ISN'T NICE TO MY GIRLS?
how can you then follow that up with I CAN'T BREAK UP WITH HIM BECAUSE IT WILL BREAK HIS HEART???? I'm assuming that your children are more important than any other human being walking the earth and their happiness and safety means more to you than some guy! You've answered this question for yourself - don't be afraid to be alone - and don't put or leave your children in harms way! Choose them! Leave the loser - oh and only you can help you....
2006-07-11 04:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by The CEO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is physically or verbally abusive to you and your children, then you need to get away from him now. Contact the authorities at once. If he is merely unpleasant and treats you and your daughters poorly, then not only is he not your boyfriend...he's not really in love with you. People do not treat those that they love like dirt. You deserve better, but the only way you'll ever get it is if you grow a spine, get the courage, and tell him to hit the curb.
Someone who will respect you, who will treat you and your girls with tenderness and care, and who will truly love you and your girls: someone like that is out there waiting for you. All you have to do is get available and ready for them.
Right now though, you need to ditch the jerk.
2006-07-11 04:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why drag on with it your not happy and if hes not treating you acting like your boyfriend all the time then hes not your boyfriend does he even like you? ask yourself that if he does he will learn to accept your friends. or maybe hes just in it for the sex. you need to move on if it don't work out so you can find a guy who really treats you like a girl friend
2006-07-11 04:01:24 · answer #11 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋