We've been best friends for almost 2 years now and he's the most amazing guy. It's awkward for me when we hang out because i have this thing for him but at the same time, i just can't let him know how i feel because he might not feel the same way. What should i do?
2006-07-11 03:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by Kaity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it! Life is too short to waste time wishing and hoping!
2006-07-11 03:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by TheFlyingGoat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if you truly want a relationship with your friend that is more then the basic friendship you need to be honest with him and accept the chance he may not feel the same way. This is essential for ALL relationships are based on being honest and communicating one's feelings. If you chose to go about this in a way that is not being honest with your friend as well as yourself you will be hurt more later on by waiting then finding out they did not feel the same way.
You would be waiting and hoping for something and may find it difficult when they come to you telling you about someone they now have feelings for and want advice in how to go about asking that person out.
Save yourself be open and communicate how you feel you may just be surprised just prepare yourself for what ever the outcome
Good Luck
~Peace,Love,Health & Happiness extended to you~
2006-07-11 11:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by cam1princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it's love you shouldn't have to "get" him to fall for you...love is something that happens together. on the other hand if he's been hanging around you for 2 yrs obviously he is interested...maybe he's afraid of taking it to the next level...although i feel like if he felt the same way as you do you guys would already be hooked up...regardless of what anyone
says...physical attraction is an important part of a loving relationship and if the attraction is there
whats the problem......."if it don't come easy you better leave it alone"
good luck
2006-07-11 11:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. I have a best friend just like that and I have this sort of like feelings for him. He doesn't know yet but I will tell him soon. The longer you wait , the more intense it will get. Sooner or later you might just blurt it out and things will get awkward for the both of you.
2006-07-11 10:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by babyjay_babyjae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your a female this shouldnt be that difficult. What you need to do is remain incognito. Dont come on to him. But when you guys hang out increase your appeal by doing things you normally wouldnt like wear a saturday outfit on wednesday and go the extra mile without giving him any idea you are into him. You stay on top by enticing his eye and you win.
2006-07-11 10:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ty W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing if you have such a wonderful friendship and you want to keep it. If you've managed 2 years without him trying to at least make some kind of connection with you he's obviously placed you under his "friends" list and seeing you as anything else would be hard to impossible. It doesn't mean you're not attractive, it just means he values your friendship more than a potentially short and rocky relationship.
2006-07-11 10:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you should say something best friends talk about everything and he might feel the same way you are feeling. Good luck!
2006-07-11 10:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull as you would not want to break a great friendship.
I had a great guy friend and when we became partners it was even better but it did not last and how I wished that we did not cross that line.
Good luck and I hope it works out well for you.
2006-07-11 10:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that you need to be romantically involved with him? What's wrong with being his best friend? Just relax, if you pressure him to fall for you, you may drive him away and you won't have a date or a best friend. Try dating someone else.
2006-07-11 10:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by debbiec1423 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask him do you want to go for a drink , hold his hand, and bring him to a dark corner , must be at night.
2006-07-11 10:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by chp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋