2006-07-11 03:48:47 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about all of your experiences between age 21 and 32. You've been through a lot I'm sure. Now think about the person your considering dating. Has she experienced enough to be your peer?
*You may also recieve much critisism if you decide to date her. Our society is very judgemental. Can you and this person be strong enough to deal with the veiws of society from family and friends?
*Good luck with what you choose
2006-07-11 04:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by COLE 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Its all about what your comfortable with. If your unsure about weather it's OK, it will interfere with your relationship.
When I was 17 I had a relationship with a 28yr old. It didn't last long, because he was always worrying that I'd eventually go off with a man my own age.
Then I went out with a 38yr old when I was 20, but he was the kid of person to look at their personality rather than getting hung up on age. And we've been happily married for 5 yrs now!
I aways think age is not representative of maturity anyway. Girls mature faster generally. I feel like I was born a 30yr old, and I don't think my husband will ever stop acting like a teen-ager!
2006-07-11 03:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a 21 year old daughter would you approve of her going out with a 32 year old?
thought not!
find some-one your own age
christy
2006-07-11 03:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is 21 too young for what? someone your dating i presume? you guys have to give more details!! not everyone can read your mind!! but guessing you are talking about dating no, i dont think it is too young. if its over 18 then no. and if you guys both really like each other, and your not in a relationship with a 21 yr old girl just cuz shes young and not sagging thats a bad choice. but if you are with her becuz you like her and not just in it for a fling with a young girl then i guess it ok.
2006-07-11 03:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 19 years old and dating a 32 year old. It's all about what you think is ok for you. Cause in the end, age ain't nothing but a number.
2006-07-11 03:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Becky Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how mature she is compared to you. If she shares the same interests as you, then go for it.
Same thing if you decide to take it to the next level. Will you get bored with someone like her? Is she mentally stimulating? A smart man doesnt just want a trophy wife. He wants someone smart & independent. Someone who can make money and take care of it.
Sounds like you dig this girl, because only a jerk would think the younger the better. If youre taking the time to ASK, then i think she really does matter to you.
2006-07-11 04:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by theVoiceWithin... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Half your age plus seven is the french rule. So, you can understandably date a 23 year old. 21 is too young.
2006-07-11 03:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Dan w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without fully knowing your situation...
my rule of thumb for guys is +- 5 years. I couldnt think of hanging with a 21 year old. Dont get me wrong the sex would be great but damn, what the hell you gonna do with the rest of the time.
2006-07-11 03:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Looking4Help727 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're old enough to be the girl's father then it is a little sick. Eleven years is probably ok but she is probably fairly immature still at 21. Good luck!
2006-07-11 03:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is legal age (21 and older)She is not too young.If you chose a girl that is under the age of 18..she is too young
2006-07-11 03:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by wsm0628 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋