im the guy who is crying over this girl for 20 years . i wish to thank everyone who has tried to answer and hear my questions. it does feel a little better to hear what other people think . i do still hurt alot. there is something about this girl that i just cant forget or move on. i know im a big wimp. i cant help it, i love her. i love her i love her.
2006-07-11 03:30:55 · 17 answers · asked by Andre M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't feel bad, even players have that good one that got away, many people think some players are players because of the one that got away or destroyed them, you need to find someone else 20 years is way too long to be hung up on a girl, I'm on 5 years and that way too long too but she moved out of state and the age difference justifies for me why it didn't work but she was the most perfect person for me. Try Eharmony.com
2006-07-11 03:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will seem like forever before you will come to terms. Like I said How do you forget 20 yrs of your life? You will eventually find someone new or they will find YOU!!! By the way.. your not a wimp, your just broken hearted. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-11 10:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by sleeplessdreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I struggled a long time with my ex-wife leaving me so I feel your pain. In the end I realised that my inability to forget her is something that is a part of me I cannot change. However, I have finally found love again ... and love that is better than she could have ever give me. You need to start trying to find that yourself. You cannot change the past, but you can change your future.
2006-07-11 10:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! That's hard! Why don't you save up some money and take a trip? That might help get your mind off of her. What a terrible feeling! Take up many activities to keep yourself busy... Music, sports... time does heal. Good Luck!
2006-07-11 10:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by coconut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cry over spilled milk... let it go she obviously didn't care about your feelings so why waist your life on her? theres beautiful girls out there and i know there is one out there for you.. she just wasn't the one for you.. i know you feel hurt but time is the true healer and you will see in time, then you will be asking yourself" what the **** was wrong with me" i know it don't seem that way now but you'll see. you will meet a beautiful women and you life will began. she might be in your thoughts from time to time but only thinking how dumb you were to keep holding on to someone who made your life miserable.. just give yourself time..
2006-07-11 10:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by MARYJANE F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sorry to see someone hurt so much.
just take it day by day. it is very hard but you will find someone special, it is always the same we all fall in love with someone or something we can't have.
just believe in yourself and try to carry on with your life. you will be OK. LOVE DOES HURT.
2006-07-11 10:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y! Answers is not therapy. It is a sounding board. If you think you need therapy, you should contact a physician. If you just wanted to get people's opinion, then this is the place.
2006-07-11 10:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should I also recommend a good book on obsessive love and stalking???
2006-07-11 10:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thin line between love and obsession. You my friend have an obsession with her.
2006-07-11 10:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOBODY is worth wasting your life over.you WILL meet someone else one day,and wonder what you ever saw in her
2006-07-11 10:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋