Me and my so called boyfriend had a slight argument. He was at fault and should be apologizing. i haven't called him because I feel that he should call me first. So why hasn't he called its been 2 days and nothing what should i do. I really love this man and he's not one of thses guys thats a usual a$$hole. Could he just be that stupied?
2006-07-11 03:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by clairhead222 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you need to do is reverse the roles you both have in this relationship, meaning: try to put yourself in his place.
If you didnt call for 2 days after an arguement with your boyfriend then what HAVE you been doing with your time?
Plus what is going thru your mind regarding him?
I know when i try to see things thru others eyes a sometimes get a swift bitchslap of reality, at what you will get here if you only would take a step back and observe.
I would be done with this guy, or at least put him in a lower spot on your cares list.
I think that He shouldnt need to appologize, but he should at least call to say he is alive.
And remember, as all relationships have there ups and downs this will not be the last, when it happens again, do you want to be left hanging for who knows how many days? wondering? waiting? wailing? wishing?
because as you get further into it you will have more emotions that can be hurt by this type of situation.
So as I think, you should start shopping fro a newer model boyfriend.
good luck!
2006-07-11 03:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell from the way you're wording the question that you're one of these immature, possibly stuck up, full of herself little girls. you're playing a dam game, saying "He was at fault and should be apologizing. i haven't called him because I feel that he should call me first." for gods sake grow up. you say you love him, then ask "Could he just be that stupied?" yeah you really sound like you love him.
you probably only think you're right, he's probably tired of the way you act or treat him. when a guy feels he's at fault for something he apologizes right away. so keep telling yourself your right and playing your game. also say good by to your boyfriend too.
i may not have answered that the way you would want me too. I'd love to make all my answers to sound like rainbows and flowers. but sometimes, the blunt and honest truth of the situation is what has to be pointed out.
2006-07-11 03:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by cesar g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just really really mad at you, and doesn't want to talk to you still. Maybe he apologizes a lot and makes the first move to make up a lot and he's sick of it, and he's waiting for you to call him. Maybe he thinks its YOUR fault that you fought and he's waiting for YOUR call, and wondering why you aren't calling. Maybe he's just stubborn.
Whatever the reason, just call him, and see what's up. No one here knows what's going through his head, you have to ask him yourself. When you call, don't demand an apology, just say you missed him these last couple of days, and take it from there.
2006-07-11 03:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by cay_damay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not stupid, stubborn maybe- if you truly feel that he should be apologizing and he has not called you DO NOT call him- that will only make him think that he can do what he wants and you will still be there- wait it out!!! and if he doesnt call, then he is making the mistake and he will have to live with the never knowing...
2006-07-11 03:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by blahblahblah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he's not stupid, he's probably playing the same silly stupid game your playing...seeing who will give in first! you may want to call him, cause if he's as young as you sound, he'll be looking for someone to take your place in about another day or two...then who wins?
2006-07-11 03:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah maybe he's stupid but he is a man dont expect him 2 call first it would damage his pride call him i wouldn't hurt u will it? U SAY U LOVE HIM SO CALL HIM AND RESOLVE YOUR PROBLEM.
2006-07-11 03:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl2k345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"So called boyfriend"...."really love this man".....which is it? You're so sure it was his fault huh? Usually takes two to tango....stupid has no e in it stupid.
2006-07-11 03:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be cheating ya never know i would just forget about him and move on
2006-07-11 03:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥►Missy◄♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him you want to talk
2006-07-11 03:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i'd call him and tell him that you're sorry.because if you're wiating on him to do it.sorry to say you're going to be waiting a long time.
2006-07-11 03:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋