i tell myself im not gonna call or email her but i do. im crying as im writing this , it hurts to breath. i love her so much. she is married though. that makes me sick to my stomach.
2006-07-11 03:10:40 · 13 answers · asked by Andre M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe this is the girl god has for you maybe not
2006-07-11 03:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By hurting yourself you are only adding to your abuse from your brother, you are letting him really win. He must be a real prick to be beating you up all the time, smoking pot and such will help you relax and forget about the problem but it is not going to make it go away. You say it would be embarrassing to tell your parents, I think you should find more shame in hurting yourself than if you told your parents. If you killed yourself, then that would probably make your di*k brother happy because then he would get more things from your parents. Dont ruin or end your life because of a jerk, have some self respect and be in control of this situation. You need to either tell your parents and let them know if they dont do anything that the police will. If you dont want to talk to your parents first then just call the police when he beats you up, but without telling your parents first you will make them very upset at you for not going to them first. You could also make a friend that is bigger and badder than your brother and then have him beat up your brother if your brother beats up you. Dont hurt yourself and dont kill yourself, just toughen up mentally and be a man about it, you are your own person and you nor anyone deserves the kind of treatment your brother is giving you. I know you dont want to hear it but TALK TO YOUR PARENTS AND SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, and I am sure they can also face charges if they let this continue. Hang in there.
2016-03-27 01:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your in love or in a high Like stage. You always want to be around her and hope that you get just 1 minute to see her a day. And the thought of her being with you makes you happy.
Its a mental thing you just need to control. So you have to push yourself not to be so clingy because thats just making it worse...and she's married, don't be a home wrecker...
2006-07-11 03:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hello married that is a sign she will never be with you. Get over it and move on. Not being harsh but I have a feeling she is older and you like the sex and that is all that is keeping you. Find you a young lil freak. It takes time to get over it. Go out and have fun.
2006-07-11 03:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need strength you do not have. We are weak sinners and need God to give us strength. The decision to leave her alone is a good one. Emotions are very strong and overwhelming. It would be the most loving thing you could do to let her go. I pray for you to know who the answer to all your problems is. The Lord Jesus Christ loves you so much he died for you. Do not neglect such a great salvation.
2006-07-11 03:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Judy (starynite) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like love...it sounds like you are needy and you chose a married woman to need. Is there anything else in your life besides this emotional drama...maybe you need a career or a hobby...try base jumping dude.
2006-07-11 03:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you two have a serious talk ? just to know what's happening in her mind and clear up the situation!Maybe she is not happy in her marriage or she is taking you for a smart ride either way you should try to find out!!!!!!!
2006-07-11 03:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you, i really do. you know it will most likely never go anywhere but you can't help what you feel. Try to find someone who likes you back, the easiest way to get over a person is to keep busy. :)
2006-07-11 03:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by cc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with people getting involved with married men and women?
2006-07-11 03:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude man up and quit being a little bia bia theres to many women out there to be crying over one chick
2006-07-11 03:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by seldogone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to force yourself to quit thinking about her.Occupy your time with activities that you like so you won't be obsessed with this woman and you can get on with your life
2006-07-11 03:13:55 · answer #11 · answered by kikasman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋