Well I think my sis is being too sensitive. She expects people to do everything that she wants. I am not going to fall for her tears. She has been a disgrace to this family. She nearly got sent to prison cos she got obsessed over this white fella who was twice her age and had sex with him too-dirty cow. Then she kept attention-seeking by overdosing …was in a ward of nutters for a few weeks. My mum trusts me; I feel I earn her respect and trust. I can go off traveling as my trusts me…no one can trust my sis. Her problem is that she expects too much of people. The other night she presumed I purposely banged the door and that was whining to me. She really pisses me off so slammed the door again. My sis is a liar, manipulator. I will never forgive her when she punched my tooth out when I was little. She said the other night 'I can't remember doing that we were kids we are adults now’..Yeah Right! I don't trust her. I refuse to lend her my stuff now. I hate her.
2006-07-11 02:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by Rain M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I deserve the money…mum swiped money of my three sisters and put it in an AXA account so according to my mum they get that split between four of us. I get the houses to keep as my mum says the ‘boys ‘ family strong. My sis shouldn’t even be talking about this. She should be grateful for what she has. No one forced her to pay. Once she gave my mum £3K for some dogy Indian priest to pray for my dad who is dead. She gave my mum money on her own accord. My mum use to get annoyed with her as my sis use to work in Mcdonalds cleaning toilets and handed the money over to my mum. When she got her first wage packet …she kicked up a fuss as she wanted the money but mum showed her.....that as a family the money should be pooled she was 16 then….I was 10. I don’t give my money away although my mum never asks but always asked my sister. My sis can’t do anything right. A few weeks ago she brought a £5K cross trainer on credit. I said it was a waster but she insisted.
2006-07-11 02:59:30 · update #1
Now as I predicted she ain’t using it. She is crap. She can’t make a decision. She is a joke at 30. I’m 24 and far more mature than her.
2006-07-11 03:00:23 · update #2
are you racist let your sister make her own mistakes and get over yourself
2006-07-11 03:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has anyone really sat down and around the family table and asked your sister what her problems are?,has any of you told her that no matter what they will be there for her?i suspect you all havn,t.tell her u all love her and wish to help her obviously she is looking for her family/mothers attention and not getting it,so she reacts the way she does to get noticed.in the mean time no matter what she has done in the past.start afresh wipe the slate clean and restart the relationship as brother and sister,and keep the past in the past.good luck.
2006-07-11 10:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by irlamboyo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is a handful and that she may have to learn the hard way.. i think the best thing to do is to avoid talking to her and do not loan her any money.. sounds like she has a real problem but the places she has gone to does not seem to have helped... i would just try to avoid her and i think it is bad to hate your own sister maybe you just are so tired and sick of her ways... but it is best to keep to only your affairs and if she falls and well you all have tried the best you can... i think she needs more care in a hospital .. and a counselor and psycologist...
2006-07-11 10:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister needs help and support not your anger. Are you jealous of the attention that your mother gives her? You should try and support your sister, so what she has made mistakes we all do or r u so perfect.
2006-07-18 05:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by flymetothemoon279 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family is family, you should help her no matter what. you never draw the line coz the tables can turn maybe you ge injured badly and she'll be the one to help you. you might have to eat humble pie one day, keep it small.
I know she is a problem but you were given the level head coz God knew she'd need you help
2006-07-11 10:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a minute i thought my 12 yr old daughters where home,they bang doors and ***** about each other and whats wrong with white men
2006-07-11 10:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by spuddylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with white men, unless you are a racist. Maybe you should fix what's wrong with you first, then, do some thing about the rest of your problems.
2006-07-11 10:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you are half the mature man you say you will get on with you're own $hit and leave them to it. Get you're own place and live you're own life. Peace.
2006-07-19 11:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋