2006-07-11 02:45:56 · 70 answers · asked by ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to ask yourself first of all what you want from life. Do you really love her? Do you believe in monogamy? Do you believe that if you go out with other women, you can still show all your devotion to her?
It's in human nature to go beyond what is reached. It is your inner feelings that tell you that now that you were able to go out with your girffriend, you now need to go beyond and prove to yourself that you can go out with others.
If you really believe for yourself that what you are doing is wrong, then work it out with your own self. I suggest you go alone, in a park or in your room, and think about what you want, meditate. that's the best way to get things in your heart and soul.
2006-07-11 02:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by ff9_terra 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because your relationship is lacking something, or you are just a player. The only good reason, as far as a man is concerned, is when your sig. other is not giving you what you want. Maybe she is just conveniant and always there [wrong reason] or you just look as her as a play toy [another wrong answer].
Find out what you are missing; and in the mean time take a long look at yourself. You are absolutely not doing her any good at all and probably causing hurtful feelings.
Step back and see if you would like it if she was needing another BF and how you would feel; and let her find a real man who isn't out spreading his seed in all the flowers he can find.
Let her go till you grow up and find the right WOMAN!
2006-07-11 02:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than give you the standard "cause your a jerk answer" maybe there is something deeper.
1. Maybe you just don't find her attractive the way you used to, if this is true, break up with her, it's not fair to her.
2. Maybe it's the kind of relationship you saw someone you idolized have
3. Maybe you just don't want to be in a relationship.
overall though you should leave your girlfriend, because it's not fair to keep her as a g/f if you don't really want that.
2006-07-11 02:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u wanna mess around with other girls, then its simple u should not have a girlfriend right now until u know in your heart that u r ready to be a faithful and commit to one girl. Or maybe ur the kind that wants the benefit of being a relationship while still messing with others. That's not cool. Be honest and just date girls and let them know that u r dating other girls.
2006-07-11 02:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rom 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; God is our creator and he said our problem is sin. There is only one answer to sin. The Lord Jesus Christ paid for your sin on the cross. You are a sinner and you need a savior. Even if you have prayed a prayer to accept Jesus into your heart unless there is a real change in your life you are still in your sins. A good tree bears good fruit and a bad tree bears bad fruit. Your life is bearing some bad fruit. Get real with God and you will be changed.
2006-07-11 03:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Judy (starynite) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you are weak to give into temptation. But do you really want to be faithful? Maybe you would be better suited for an open relationship. Both parties openly see other people either together or separately.
I've never been very good, in the long run, with monogamy either.
2006-07-11 02:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seem it, statistically extra women human beings cheat than adult men, actually because they quite have the alternative and we do not So convinced you're on a loser from the start yet what's the point in going headlong right into a relationship with a woman if you're actually not gonna believe her? you ought to get damage some times yet ultimately you'll stumble on a woman who received't prefer to seem elsewhere for a extra constructive guess solid success and keep the religion. solid ladies are available
2016-10-14 08:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a SEX ADDICT. Read the book "Sex Addicts Anonymous". It doesn't mean you don't know how to love, it just means you are in need of some emotional help. It DOES NOT mean you are crazy. Sometimes things get jumbled up in your head and you have to talk it out with a professional. Read the book, I'll bet you identify with some of it. Be open minded and your life will soon be back in control. Good Luck.
2006-07-11 03:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have a girlfriend have friends with benefits. Its just not fair to the girl. Be upfront about your need for other people in your life and let her make the decision about the relationship. P.S. I hope you have alot of condoms, and use them.
2006-07-11 02:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcz you don't know the benefits of being faithfull.
2006-07-11 02:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Vijay123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋