2006-07-11 02:33:41 · 20 answers · asked by laid-back 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's legal, but not all young women are mature enough for the type of relationship you should be looking for at your age. Think about all the fun you had in your twenties, then imagine depriving someone the chance to have those same good times with friends and so on.
All I am saying is that at 28 years old you should be establishing yourself in your career, looking for a woman to maybe settle down and have kids with. And the 18 year old girl hasn't even had her first legal drink of alcohol or finished her college education yet.
2006-07-11 02:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is normal. They are youthful, fun, and full of energy. However, you'll find they have different interests. Remember yourself at 18 and what you were interested in. You're a very different person now. Most 18 year olds aren't interested in settling down. They're more concerned about turning 21 so they can legally drink. Remember that stage? You'd be better off with someone who is over 21 who has gotten a lot of the partying (and obsession with alcohol) out of her system.
FYI, she'll be excited to date you at first, because you are an "older man" and it's cool to date older men (they're more mature and have more money compared to 18 year boys). But she'll eventually see that you ARE older, and the excitement will wear off a bit. Short term things are okay, but long-term, I'd look for someone a little older......at least in her 20s. You'll find someone whose interests are similar to yours.
2006-07-11 09:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because at 28 you're finally starting to mature and want a real relationship but you're not really ready for the possible needs of a 28 year old woman (like having children and being married) As long as the woman is over 18 she's legal and as long as you don't lie to her about your age it's all good.
2006-07-11 09:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Games Games Games, that is all you will get out of this. You are a grown man, and she is a child just becoming an adult. She have not experienced this part yet. It will never work, you need someone that is on your level and can benefit you and the same time. If you care about your heart and feeling then don't go there. You will be setting yourself for a fall.
2006-07-11 09:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it seem weird now casue she is only 18 but look at it when ur 30 she will be 20 or even look at it when ur 40 she will be 30 its not bad at all
2006-07-11 09:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is bad at all as long as you KNOW that are really 18
2006-07-11 09:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 31 and I say no, but at the same time you have to be able to handle the generational difference.(They get a little irritating)
2006-07-11 09:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It says a lot about your intellect. But if you feel like that, go for it. look for someone of your intelectual level (someone who just finished highschool and lives with mommy and daddy and experienced nothing in life).
2006-07-11 09:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by paliminka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, i'm 32 and i desire 18 yr olds all the time...
2006-07-11 09:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are adults. under 18 is another story and a crime
2006-07-11 09:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋