I have a bit of a situation here, wondering if you guys could help.
I met this guy Jake which I thought was really cool. we hit it off instantly. But before I met Jake, I met my really good friends brother and I thought he was just the hottest thing in this planet. Well my really good friend said that he was interested in getting to know me, but when all this was happening, he was in Oklahoma helping her sister (my good friend) with her move. SO on this side of town I was hanging out with Jake, but things got to move a little too fast for me. I met his parents, he met mine. all that in a matter of 1 week. (kinda freaks me out a little) So the Question is... Since its in the back of my head, and I told my friends brother that I was already dating someone, Should I back down, (slow it down) with the other guy and give my friends brother a chance? Would it be wrong? You tell me!
2006-07-11 02:16:38 · 8 answers · asked by Zinnia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur the only one who can make the decision
2006-07-11 02:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by browneyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go with your friends brother. Honestly, I was in this situation before. Only, I was the friend. My best friend dated my friend and I never told her that it bothered me. She came to me when she was upset about their relationship and it tore me apart. I felt like I should stand up for my family but I also wanted to be there for my best friend. In the end it destroyed our friendship. We didn't speak for 7 months. Now we are friends again but it killed our friendship. Even if she says that she is okay with it, don't do it. It's not worth a friendship. You should stick with the one guy and tell him to slow down. Good luck!
2006-07-11 02:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ususally not a good idea to date friends relatives. It strains the friendship when things go wrong. But do what's in your heart!
2006-07-11 02:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always tricky getting involved with a friends brother. If things don't work out for some reason or another it could ruin your friendship.
2006-07-11 02:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by hipchic_inhiding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes is wrong you have a bf now so don;t mess things up now be happy for what you have if your not happy with this guy and than yes maybe go for the other
2006-07-11 02:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well which ever one u have the most interest in go for it just leave the other one with understanding and make sure its cool with them
2006-07-11 02:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by cup-cake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the one your with.
2006-07-11 02:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can tell u is do what u think is best for u who makes u the happiest is who u should be with
2006-07-11 02:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋