i loved my ex girlfriend to death and then she broke up with me and now its like months later and i feel completely uniterested in her but recently she started acting alot nicer to me and in my head i jumped to the conclusion she likes me again. Am i thinking that because i want her cause i dont think i do. Just as a precaution, if she happened to ask me out again, what should i do. I feel like i should and would say no but then again i know i could get to loving her like i used to again. any help is appreciated.
2006-07-11 02:16:25 · 16 answers · asked by mitch w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should go out with her again unless you have addressed the problems as to why you split up before. There must have been something wrong in your relationship or you would not have split up. I think you should leave this relationship where it belongs, in the past. Move on and meet new people. Good luck x
2006-07-11 02:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you loved her then she broke your heart. it all depends on her reasons why she dumped you last time. if it was for someone else then woah dont go there! i'm a girl and trust me, they dont really like u if they do that, but theyd go out with u to jus not be single. who knows, she may do it again. You might be being confused because u used to feel so much for her and now it's nothing, but that's just it, if you feel hardly anythign for her, obviously you've moved on and you didn't love her as much as love should be. otherwise u'd still be head over heels for her and the feelings wouldntve gone. sorry to say it. if she asks u out again say i'll think about it, then really really do think about it. think about how u'd feel if she asked u right this second, think about how u'd feel to be with her again, think of how you'd feel if you lost her again. It's all gotta be considered.
2006-07-11 09:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by sezzylyons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should give her another chance if you want to. I m not going to tell you to follow ur heart because that will only break it but instead maybe you should follow your mind. Think about first if she asks you to go back out with her. Dont ask her because shes the one who broke it off. Hope I helped you out some.
2006-07-11 09:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by honeylove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, you must first ask yourself, 'has my ex-girlfriend changed?'
If the aspect of her personality that caused the breakup has changed then feel free to try again. If she is still the same, then it's pointless to try again as she will only dump you again. the same personality will act in the same way.
2006-07-11 09:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if someone breaks up with you, you should just leave it at that. Bridges that have been burned aren't worth re-building in my opinion. I may be wrong, but I don't believe in lamenting over the past. Just accept what has happened and get on with your life. Once bitten, twice shy.
2006-07-11 09:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by ʎǝ1ʇʇnɯ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a classic case of she went looking for other people and realized she still wanted you. Id say dont go out with her but continue being friends.
2006-07-11 09:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, move on and don't look back - there is a big world out there full of new people to meet.
If you are uninterested in her stick with that thought and find someone else
2006-07-11 09:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u2 obviously need to talk and see where u both stand, if shes not interested u need to cut off contact completely cos still being in touch with her wont do u any good.
2006-07-11 09:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man. make her want you. be an a**hole, girls love that. once you know you're wearing the pants in the relationship (because obviously you weren't), then take her back; and make her pay for dinner and movies and minigolf... make her be on top while you just lie back; call her names like 'whore' and '****', but smile when you do it... trust me, once you have control of this relationship, she's puddy in your hands.
2006-07-11 09:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means that you dun like her now....
but u are afraid that if she is nice to you then u will like her again?
since you are not interested in her, tell her straight in the face.
ask her why she suddenly so nice
lol, dunno what's her motive....
maybe u think too much? she just want to maintain a friendship with you? tt's why i think you should tell her what you feel abt her now.... and said trueful stuff, to be fair to yourself and her.
2006-07-11 09:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋