Okay...this summer when my gf was @ summer camp, the teens played spin the bottle in their cabin. My gf didn't want to play, but they made her, and when the bottle landed on her people held her down while the person kissed her. I feel really sorry for her and I wish that there was something I could do to help her feel better. I still like her and everything, but now it seems like it may be hard to kiss her again soon because of what happened. What should I do?
2006-07-11 01:20:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was not at camp with her
2006-07-11 01:32:14 · update #1
just make sure you are there for her and tell her that you love her and your feelings didnt change of what has happened.. im sure if you are gentle with her and caring then she wont reject your kiss..
tell her you can wait for her until she feels better about kissing again..
2006-07-11 01:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be hard to kiss her if what happened was against her will? Anyways, if you feel that way then you're never going to get close to any girl. Good luck.
2006-07-11 08:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should ever be forced to do anything they 'don't want to'. You will have to be patient with her and really make sure she trusts you again. You should have supported her when she did not wanted to be kissed...
If you are interested in her romantically, or even as friend, you should talk about this openly. Get it sorted. :)
2006-07-11 08:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by MeerKatje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, if she wants help then go to her parents. Maybe something more than kissing happened to her and she's afraid to tell anyone. If it's bugging her that much, there may be more to it and she needs help.
If you think theres more, go to her parents (with her permission)
2006-07-11 08:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sensei Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the sh** out of the people that did that to her. Sorry but you should have stuck up for her at the time too.
2006-07-11 08:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? made her play? made her kiss? Young man, you have been taken to the well, and tossed in.....if she participated, she did it willingly...and she did not have to be held down
2006-07-11 08:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time , an let her no she can trust you, she will be fine, an sounds like she had a group of real asshole to go camping with
2006-07-11 08:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by cris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they just did a kiss for fun you know,
anyway, I think you should go talk to those people and ask them to apologize to her since she seems to be hypersensitive
2006-07-11 08:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by puno ng akasya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let it get to you. she didnt do it voluntarily, so what is the problem with kissing her? it was just a kiss. not like they got naked. just let it go.
2006-07-11 08:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by jackieleacollins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your gf isn't decisive enough. what does it mean:they made her? if she didn't want to play the game,then she wouldn't have!
too simple.
2006-07-11 08:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by tttpsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋