I never felt remotely sexually attracted to guys until after about a four to five year period of no sex with women because every single one I ever talked to would turn me down for a date. My fantasies drifted to men because in my mind, I was resolved that women are unattainable. I'm at least bisexual because I can do "anything" with a guy in bed and am "sexually" but not "emotionally" attracted to him. When I am in public, looking at women, I want them so bad it hurts. Since this bi thing cropped up, I have been with women and it "suddenly" goes away at least during the period I am with the woman. I mean no fantasies or anything 100% straight. The last time, I was getting regular sex for two months and no gay fantasies at all, then we broke up; hence no sex and the fantasies came back. My therapist thinks I'm gay. I keep telling her that I'm not friggin gay. I just need an attractive girl and by the way should I tell her I'm bi? (that will most certainly kill most relationships)
2006-07-11 01:01:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
number one...DUMP YER THERAPIST !!!!!!!!!
No, "gay" is a choice
you want to be with women and don't have the other fantasies when yer in a steady sexual relationsip with them....your therapist is probaby gay if he is telling you that u are gay when you truely want women from what u said
sounds like ya use men cause they are easier to have sexually than women at some periods in yer life....
Stick to women...the right one will come along ... and pray!
be cool...
2006-07-11 01:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I honestly dont know! But let me tell you a story. I am gay, but not because I was rejected by women! I believe that I am gay because society says so. I was convinced! I know you think this sounds like a bunch of bs, but think twice about it. After many years of torture by your peers it will eventually take it's toll on you. So eventually I crossed that line, and there is no turning back. And if you have been with other men, you need to be up front with your partners. They have a right to know. Good luck finding what IT is you want in life.
2006-07-11 01:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No unless u want to be gay
2006-07-11 01:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by caribbeangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt give up
2006-07-11 01:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋