My husband says it wrong, I say it's not and I enjoy it! Please help with any insight someone may have.
2006-07-11 00:59:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
lol. Oral sex is great
2006-07-11 01:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by gwbruce_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read that sex between a man and his wife is sanctified - and it is NOT anybody elses business what goes on inside the bedroom. The Bible also says it is a shame to speak of those things which are done in private.
The only real question that is open to debate in the areas of sex between a man and wife are the use of sexual toys - and that could possibly be wrong seeing it is not natural. as for oral sex by itself - that's between the husband and wife. UNLESS His pastor can prove conclusively to the contrary.
At any rate SEX SHOULD NOT RULE THE MARRIAGE! Marriage is never about sex, but love and devotion to one another. People who divorce over sexual issues or let tensions have bent to the carnal and let it rule their lives. While you didn't say things go that far - Its amazing how many people (Christians) divorce despite what Jesus says, over sexual issues.
Put God first in your lives.
2006-07-11 01:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no place in the Bible where it talks about oral sex. Sex is just to take place within a marriage is the only thing. This is something between you and him that you need to discuss and come to some compromise maybe.
2006-07-11 01:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by bobm709 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certain sects of Christianity believe that anything other than plain regular sex is wrong. Some still preach that it should be to reproduce only. Sex is to reproduce of course, but also to foster intimacy between a man and a woman. God made us with fun parts that fit together in a variety of fun ways. It is not wrong within the context of marriage to explore how to be initimate. That's why the Bible refers to sex as "knowing".
2006-07-11 01:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by scrapiron.geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no scripture in the Bible one way or the other on the subject of oral sex.
It does, however, teach that married couples are to have sex with each other if for no other reason that to avoid fornicating with others. (Except if they choose to go for a short time without so they can devote themselves to prayer, but then they are to come back together again - 1 Corinthians 7:5).
The beauty of physical intimacy is one of the greatest pleasure God gave to mankind. His very first command to Adam and Eve was to be fruitful and multiple. Lets see you do that without sex?
The Bible has one entire book given to the beauty of sex, the Song of Solomon (read it together some time, most wives find having love poetry read to them a turn on). About five years ago when my wife was undergoing treatment for breast cancer, with all the changes and ugly things that were happening to her body, I use to read her parts of SoS every night that describe how beautiful she was. It was an anchor for both of us during that time.
According to 1 Corinthians 7:3-4, each is to fulfill the sexual needs of the other. Each has rights to the other's body. But NOT to abuse it, not to force, intimated or embrass, but together to fulfill each others needs. If one is unwilling, then you don't. That is just simple respect. After all, we are talking lovemaking here, not just sex. With all ways that God has given us to pleasure each other, find the ways that you are both willing and enjoy them together.
2006-07-11 01:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by dewcoons 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Song of Solomon 6:2-3 My beloved is gone down into his garden, to the beds of spices, to feed in the gardens, and to gather lilies. I am my beloved's, and my beloved is mine: he feedeth among the lilies.
In fact read in the bible Song of Solomon 4:16 thru 6:4. This is very discriptive in the husband and wife consummating the marriage and it is believed that even the enjoyment of oral sex is seen.
Ray
http://www.prophezine.com
2006-07-11 01:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ray G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible does not directly prohibit oral sex. If your state or local law does prohibit it, then the Bible enforces is as well. You are supposed to submit to governing authority.
This is your call - many of these laws are antiquated and are a sensitive subject so it is seemingly useless and embarrassing to repeal them.
2006-07-11 01:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by uspatrioteer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible makes no mention of oral sex, married or otherwise.
2006-07-11 01:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Left the building 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with your hubby? He must have been taught that in his church. There is nothing in the Bible...of course, those who want will find a way to interpret it any which way they want...like the rest of the Bible. Tell your hubby to relax and enjoy.
2006-07-11 01:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
many christians consider the story of onan (genesis 38) to prohibit all sexual intercourse except as a means toward getting pregnant.
if your husband is one of these the two of you should have sexual intercourse only penetratively (and you should stop as soon as penetration has occurred). you should probably also restrict your intercourse to the four or five days each month when you are at maximum fertility.
but why not ask your husband to show you the verses he takes his guidance from? he may have a different understanding from the rest of us.
2006-07-11 01:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by synopsis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bible does not say anything about oral sex..its about personal sensibilities..one may find it gross and dirty but its worthwhile to mention that more germs exist in the human mouth than genitals of a man or woman.
2006-07-11 01:03:52 · answer #11 · answered by rehan_1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋