I have to brothers, one is 3 years older than me, the other is 6 years older than me. I get along really long with Chris, the one who is 6 years older, and I want to get along well with Patrick, the one who is 3 years older, but he seems to hate me. He always deliberately gets me in trouble (for example he told our mum i roll up my skirt at school), and he is always calling me an idiot and a git and making not so nice gestures, i really want to be friends with him, so i don't do it back, but i really want him to stop.
What can I do?
2006-07-11 00:16:31 · 14 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If your brother is bothering you so much ...I recommend you tell your oldest brother to ask him what's up and why is he acting this way. The reason usually is that it is because he is the middle child...the middle child tends to feel shafted a lot, especially since the oldest child will always be the forever great oldest child and the baby with always be the baby. Where do the middle child stand? ...due to this reason they tend to be aggressive towards the youngest child...mostly due to some sort of jealousy. I recommend that you should ask him what's his deal... and see what he says. If he is still rude to you then I recommend you telling him to grow up and realize that you are the youngest,not him and that he needs to start acting like an older brother and learn to be a nicer brother....because if he doesn't he will sorry he missed out on such a great bond someday.
2006-07-11 00:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am sure Patrick loves u,i think he is only being immature,i guess he's probably a bully in school too?i think u might be too soft on him so he picks on you alot?if he's really buggin you and ur not happy with wha he's doin to you, simply keep a distant fm him.that way he can no longer get u in trouble and also he will notices that somethin's wrong.hang out with ur older brother,u can't change how Patrick is now but eventually he will
Good luck Kid!
2006-07-11 07:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 are that close in age, he may have like sexual feelings towards you. If he saw you developing at the same time as his hormones started racing then he has a hidden crush on you and feels frustration I would say are you 2 like 13 & 15??
He may be scared of you that way talk to him about it
2006-07-11 07:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by David a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't approach him to much, he is just having a difficult period in life. My brother acted the same way when he was between 10-17, but now he's 19 and we get along!
2006-07-11 07:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by lotta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang him in his sleep.
Just relax, siblings never get on during teenage years. I shared a room with my two brothers and we were always kicking seven colours of sh*t out of each other. We get along fine these days though.
2006-07-11 07:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same bro-hes just yonger den me,but he s such stupid!!!
i also wanna be friends with him but he thinks be friends with sis is not cool,so all i do is just start to ignorin him-after some time he s just cmin up me with sayin sorry n we cool....well for few days..lol
2006-07-11 07:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he in the same class as you?
Stay away from him.
2006-07-11 07:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are sometimes naughty.When he grows up,he respects you and know you how nice you are!!
2006-07-11 07:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get adopted.
and click on spellcheck.
2006-07-11 07:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
brothers always worry their sisters. i got hru the same.
2006-07-11 07:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋