i've been seeing this guy for 8 months, my parents didn't like him from the start.
After 8 months they say l have to move out if l carry on seeing him.
So we kind of take a break for a bit, he doesnt want me living with him, but hey l love him, miss him.
For 2 months we still meet every week for sex, at the weekend l was ment to go to his brothers wedding with him and we would stay the night together.
l get a txt from him yday, saying "u can't come wit me on sat, l've meet someone else"
l'm l wrong to feel like he has cheated on me?
He was still sleeping with me after he meet her.
He had sex with me the day before he took her out.
He blame my parents for us not being able to be together.
2006-07-11 00:16:29 · 19 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a relationship like this for 4yrs. When ur parents don't like the guy unless u are deeply in love with him then it's just not worth fightin 4. Just causes hassle. He definatly has been cheating on you but maybe he knos it cant go anywhere cos of the situation ur in, so he has probably been on the look out 4 a new gal. I dont think he was using u because of how long u'v been 2gether but he was definatly inconsiderate of ur feelings. He could've still took u 2 the weddin cos he'd asked u 1st and then broke up with u afterwards. But ask urself would u have really wanted 2 go? Cos either way he was gonna leave 2 be with this gal cos of ur situation. :) Go out and let ya hair down with ya gal m8s. Get really drunk and get off with the hunkiest guy u can find 2 make yaself feel appealling again that'll make ya feel better!
2006-07-11 00:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by 13Special 2 · 14⤊ 1⤋
How old is he? If he is the same age as you then he probably isnt looking for a serious relationship. Why didnt your parents like him?
I would try and steer clear of this guy. He has told you about this other girl and you have to move on. You are right to feel cheated but these things happen and he may not have slept with her while he was seeing you. He cant blame your parents for splitting you up - he met someone else.
You may think you love him but most of the time its fear of being on our own that scares us rather than ending a bad relationship. No one wants to be on their own. You are only young so go out with your mates, have some fun and forget about him.
2006-07-11 07:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by moblopo36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you remember, You said you guys took a break. Yeah you were still having sex but you are on a break. That means a break from each other. He told you he found someone else. Look at it this way. Atleast you know now what kind of person he is. You dont want that. There are more fish in the sea. If you are over 18 then you need to do what makes you happy. If he made you happy then you should have stayed with him.
2006-07-11 07:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not being overly sensitive; he couldn't get you away from your parents protection so he made sure he had someone else then dumped you by text. Nobody takes someone they just met to a family wedding.
Your parents knew he was a waster and saw through him; you missed the signs. Go give your Mum a kiss on the cheek, you got lucky and got out before things got really bad.
He's not a player, just a user.
2006-07-11 07:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by sarah c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's a player. Don't you think your parents have more perception about these things than you do? They recognized right away what kind of a scumbag this guy is; he's USING you!
Not only is he 'cheating' on you, he's probably 'cheating' on the new girl, too. I don't know how old you are, but it sounds to me like you're way too young and immature to be involved in a sexual relationship anyway. Stop trying to grow up so fast......
enjoy the innocence of youth. If someone really cares for you and loves you, he'll wait for you. He'll wait for you because you're worth it!!!
2006-07-11 07:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by -RKO- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one your parents seen something you didn't, allways trust family. And if he didn't want you to move in, means he is meeting someone else. you have been played for sex. But a least you got some sex out of it. HE DID CHEATED ON YOU. read the sign does it have to slap you in the forehead for you to understand and get rid of that sensitive stuff, it doesn't do anything but gets in the way to see the truth in front of you. And don't let him blame your parents, he was a snake. that got into your apple.
2006-07-11 07:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has told you loud and clear he is with someone else now. Don't let him continue to use you for sex. He does not want a relationship with you. It is over, move on and forget him. You will meet someone more worthy of your love, don't waste it on him. Listen to your parents, he is not worth crying over. Take care x
2006-07-11 07:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him use your parents as an excuse for his behaviour. Yes, it sounds to me as if he was seeing someone else while still with you. That's not fair to you or the other gal as well.
I would cut my losses now...while i can. There are other men out there who know how to treat a women. For this guy of yours certainly does not. Don't give in to him or play his game. Your self-worth and self-esteem are far more important!
2006-07-11 07:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in denial. He was not only cheating but has already moved on. Stop moping over him and try your best to move on.
Did you ever find out why your parents did not like him?
2006-07-11 07:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't see a future with you what with your parents not liking him, but he likes having sex with you. He his a player and he will dump you eventually.
2006-07-11 07:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋