and i hate it i want my own unit so i can live alone what do i do my parents are the type to cut you out of the family if you upset them...?
2006-07-10 23:25:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i hate it i cant sleep there or anything what do i do?
the reason as to why i was with my grandparents in the first place is VERY private so please dont ask as you wont be told
2006-07-11 14:00:36 · update #1
Bear with it til you are 21 then move out.
2006-07-10 23:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why at 16 did you move back to your parents. Your parental unit is your grandparents. Your own parents just gave you birth but your parental support has been your grandparents. At 16 you should care more about your health and well being at this point. Communicate things to your parents about how unhappy you are or better yet analyze why living with your parents is making you so unhappy!
2006-07-11 06:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just deal with it. Your parents have likely missed you in the years you've been gone. If it is not unbearable, just give them these two years, afterwards you'll have all the autonomy you'll want.
If you feel like your parents are unreasonable and don't understand you, try to make your feelings clear, but don't be offensive or angry. If they feel like you act as an adult, they are more likely to give you more freedom and autonomy, and later, as an adult, you can choose exactly what kind of relationship you want with them. You probably can't be emancipated unless they are abusive, so you are unlikely to be able to move out early without upsetting them, sorry.
2006-07-11 06:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ranavain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult situation. You need to put in points what you do not like about staying with your parents, then see if anything can be done about some of these points and ask your parents. Tell them that it is difficult for you.
2006-07-11 06:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Hanan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a guess my first question is why aren't you still with your grandparents and why were you with them to begin with?
It may that you don't hate it as much as you are not familiar with they do things.
2006-07-11 06:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by Gabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybee you should talk to your mum about this. she has to understand as you lived with your grandparents for so long,its not unusual you feel this way . maybe it will feel better when you talk to your mum. and dont be silly your parents would never kick you out they love you ,they created you . make the most of being with them . they are not with us forever. these are the best years of your life. its no fun living out of home trust me.
2006-07-11 06:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by latoia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like you have much of an option right now.
i guess you're going to have to make the best of a bad situation, start getting to know them.
and as bad as it may be for you, be thankful you have a roof over your head...save up for when you reach legal age so you can leave!
2006-07-11 06:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant you move back in with your grandparents?Are they still around?
2006-07-11 06:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by lunatic_no9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
share your feelings with your parents I'm sure they would understand.visit your grandparents occasionally and don't forget that your parents need you as well!
2006-07-11 06:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have not been with them for sometime so does it really matter, as long as you grandparents don't shut you out you should be OK
2006-07-11 06:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by REAPER_ENTERPRISES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋