on thursday me and my bf have agreed to end our relationship and move on due to reasons. The problem is i know im a going to be really upset when i leave and i am meant to be going out that night with some friends. I am scared that i will get soooooooooooo drunk and do something stupid, like hurt myself, or call and text him when i know i shouldnt and he will get annoyed, what should i do?
2006-07-10 23:08:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is how d life goes on and v all shud try 2 go along wid life. dont drink 4 a man who ended d relation . leave him and forget him. but dont drink thinking of him. let him go 2 hell. u go 2 ur way.
2006-07-10 23:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by crackluver007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would be better not to go out, it`s tempting but the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. You may end up doing something that will later regret, so is it really worth it? It is natural that you are going to be upset and it`s realistic that will get drunk to try and numb how you are feeling. The only problem with that is when you are hurting so bad, you need a lot of alcohol to take the pain away. Then things seem a good idea when in fact they are a really bad idea! Stay in, pamper yourself, take care of you and go out another time when the feeling isn`t quite so raw. Take care!
2006-07-10 23:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Poppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why thursday?
Whats wrong with today?
You obviously have your reasons for doing it on a thursday babe, If its a clean break up and you have both decided its the right thing then you have to look at it and think it could be alot worse.
Go out with the girls and enjoy yourself, dont ake your phone out and let your mates know whats happenig... a good friend will look after you, make you laugh and take your mind of whats happened.
Try not to drink to much and flirt like mad... your single and can go out and have a giggle, re-build your confidence...
There is no better cure to a break-up than knowing that there are other guys out there who fancy you.
MEN COME AND GO BUT GOOD FRIENDS ARE FOR LIFE!!!
Have fun!!! Dont let this guy know your devastated about the break-up, be cool and calm and get back out there.
Good luck babe
2006-07-10 23:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by KIAHTREE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously dont want this to end, maybe the question you should ask yourself is do you think your relationship will work?
I think that you should talk to him one last time before you go out and ask him if ending the relationship is what he really wants to do.
If he says yes then go out and have some fun with your friends, if he says no then go to him and have a nice evening together and talk truthfully with each other about what you both want and see if you can make things work.
There is a chance he is feeling the same way and doesnt know how to tell you?
2006-07-10 23:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the exact same thing, went out on a girlie night and go sooo drunk I called my boyfriend and made a complete prat out of myself! From my experience, don't take your phone out or just delete his number, don't get too drunk, have fun with the girls and remember what fun times you all had together before you met you last bf, I'm sure Mr Right will soon be round the corner!!!
2006-07-10 23:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by charlie_angel3751 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to get over him you should move on with your life. Have fun and enjoy your time with your friend. If you are really worried about doing something stupid just talk to your friends about it and ask them to not let you get drink and if you do tell them to keep an eye on you so that you don’t do anything stupid. Now if you feel that you are not going to enjoy yourself then don’t go, but I think you have less chances of calling him when you are home doing nothing rather then having fun with your friends
2006-07-10 23:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Arlene Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am I being blonde, why are you waiting until thursday to end the relationship?
apart from that you should go out and enjoy yourself, you're bound to be upset, devastated even, but surely your mates will look out for you and not let you do anything stupid. it's a time like this when a girl really needs her mates around, don't stay in! good luck!
2006-07-10 23:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you are going to go get drunk and do something stupid then what is the problem? don't go get drunk and instead stay home with friends or family and go to a movie silly. And give your cell to someone else to hold so you wont be tempted to text him.
2006-07-10 23:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok leave your cell phone with someone that your not gunna see till the next day, unhook all the phones at your place (have your friends hide the cords if nesicary) and go out and have a great time, have your friends make sure u dont drink too much. have the people you love look out for you its the best thing you can do.
have a good night.
2006-07-10 23:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by *~Squeekimz~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stay at home that night, why end it on Thursday call him and end it today. There are a lot of nice guys out there start searching for yours today, cause next week i'm getting them all :)
2006-07-10 23:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it will be good for you to get out with your friends, they'll help your hurt feelings. As for getting drunk and doing something stupid, that's why you ask your friends to watch out for you. True friends will be there to ensure you don't hurt yourself hurt or do something you might regret later. Just tell your friends what you are feeling and your concerns, hopefully that will help your journeys.
2006-07-10 23:27:07 · answer #11 · answered by swordsmanoflight21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋