my ex who i split up with becus of my stressful situation and i dumped him (i just wasnt me) is now saying he doesnt know whether he wnats me or in what way saying he is confused and feels safe at the distance he is now because he feels he cant have his heart torn ag. still finds me v. attractive and fancies me and says hecares for me he says when he thinks about what i did last month he doesnt feel he loves me but when he takes that month away he loves me more than anything in the world. i asked him if he wanted to cutit off completely and he sed we know so much about each other he could never do that. he sed he wants to foget the month of hell but doesnt know whether he can. i told him i want to work at the relationship and he said he camt at the moment. i hope like hell he relaises all the good stuff because he saying he is scared of this happening again and that i have driven him to a place where he wont get hurt he feels safe there. i wont hurt him i love him.is there hope?
2006-07-10 22:54:53 · 4 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry to tell you that there is no hope that is what happened with me and my 1st love and i did the same thing it has been 8 years now and he will not see me because he is afraid of getting hurt again. i think once a man gets hurt they put up a thicker shield and it is 10 times harder for them to trust again
2006-07-10 23:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have enough stress in your life. Handle your business, tell your guy you love him, that you are stressed and you need your space. And then do it. Also that you can get back together after you settle some things.
2006-07-11 06:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there maybe hope, you have to work hard to show him that you care and love him, make sure that he understands that what you did was not normally you.
2006-07-11 06:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by REAPER_ENTERPRISES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and him are really for each other there will be hope
2006-07-11 06:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by omgGUESSwho? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋