Every time I would have a girl at our place, he would say & do things to ruin the mood.He'd always have something to say about every girl I (dated).I broke the friendship off because he knew he had a guy thing when he met me,I would've told him we couldn't be friends at that point! But no he waited 2 years.Was that the right thing to do?
2006-07-10 22:23:12 · 10 answers · asked by blade74 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If it makes you feel better sure!
2006-07-10 22:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kev249er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm proudly Gay, but I don't like push ons either. I can understand your exercise of anger towards him. Seems he was a bit immature.
Did you have to break the friendship? I dunno! You called him "a best friend" in your question. Was there nothing to salvage?
Is homophobia playing a part in all this?
Are you dead set against having any friends who are Gay? or are you just angry at this particular person being dishonest about this matter with you?
2006-07-11 05:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by My Big Bear Ron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how you could be friends with someone for two years and not know that person was gay. I can see you being upset if he lied to you, and about his inappropriate behavior around your girl friends. But, to say that you would,'t be friends because he's gay, is a bit narrow minded.
2006-07-11 06:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by mo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, Gay or not he had no reason to be rude and talk bad about your girls that you dated. Also since he saw you dating girls not gay men, he should have known that you did not want to be involved with him.
In my eyes you did the right thing. He really acted like a spoiled jerk.
2006-07-16 22:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by PGBISME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was living at your place, you did fine. If he shares equally in the rent or mortgage, though, the proper response was probably, "I'm moving," instead of telling the other guy when to move out.
2006-07-11 05:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet! Your honesty was right up front!
2006-07-11 05:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you yes him no
not a real good friend was he
no loss
2006-07-11 05:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're straight it was the right thing to do.
2006-07-11 05:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by hunga bunga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U WAZ RIGHT.... U MADE A RIGHT CHOICE OTHER WISE U WOULD HAD TURNED.....
2006-07-11 06:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by thatniceboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him, unless u like him.
2006-07-11 10:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by smooch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋