what is the right age 2 get married and start having kids?
2006-07-10 20:47:40 · 17 answers · asked by Camille 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
When you are already over 21 and when you are sure that the guy you wanted to marry loves you as much as you love him. Start having kids 2 years after you've been married, at least that gives you time to adjust to each other first. :)
2006-07-10 20:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's Your Pick No One Really Knows When But If It Really Feels Right And You're Pretty Sure About It Then Take The Chance. There Is No Right Age To Get Married (Except If You're Too Young.... ex...18) And There No Wrong Age To Start Having Kids (Unless You're In Your Teens Or First Few Years Of Your Twenty's).
2006-07-11 04:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by xXCutiexKittyXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right age is different for everyone. One the one hand, it is nice to have the kids when you are young and have a lot of energy, and then when you are older, you can enjoy the fact that the kids are grown and on their own. On the other hand, if you wait until you're closer to 30, you may have developed more patient and wisdom, and have had a chance to travel and establish a career. But then you will still be raising kids when you are older.
2006-07-11 03:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no preset age.Everyone matures differently. But if I had it to do over I would have been atleast 25-30. Remember: What u want at 18 might not be what u want at 30. You are just a different person. Live a little...do things young people do...then after u have traveled and been U for a while...then start looking for someone to be a life partner. U have to know yourself before u can truly give yourself 2 someone else...fully!
2006-07-12 10:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no "right" age. What is more important is that both people in the relationship are over and done with all of their wild partying days and are both able to understand 100% that marriage and kids is supposed to be FOREVER. I know some 35 year olds who still don't seem to be able to grasp that concept.
2006-07-11 13:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say about 22-25. Ive been married for 10 yrs and have 4 kids, i was 21 when i got married so it really depends. but definitely make sure that is what you want because it it a lifelong commitment(in most cases) and when you have kids, well that job never ends
2006-07-11 03:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22
2006-07-11 03:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you do NOT have to be married to have children. My fiance and I have 2 children together and aren't getting married until next year. You don't have to be married to be in a committed relationship. Second, there is no set age to have children. I had my first child at 18. I feel that if you are mature enough to put your needs aside for a child, are able to financially able to support a child without welfare, you are in a committed relationship, then you are ready for a child.
2006-07-11 07:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no right age to get married.... It happens when both people are ready and willing to do what it takes... and as far as having kids no-one is ever really ready or prepared to have kids.
2006-07-11 03:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by atebolchick22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have reached adulthood and you think you are ready for a commitment, its right to get married. As far as kids are concerned, whenever they come along... its the right time... even if you are not prepared, cause they are such a joy.
2006-07-11 03:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋