i like this korean guy for months( 7 to be exact). and had a one night stand with him. doing that is out of my character. but i don't think he knows that. how do i tell him that without sounding stupid and crass? and how would i know what he's thinking or feeling now/ should i kask him outright or beat around the bush? how do i deal with him?
2006-07-10 20:44:58 · 5 answers · asked by AJ BA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live in Korea and have been here for five years. Korean men can be really good friends, but they are lousy boyfriends and husbands. The Korean girls outnumber them by miles. For every boy Korean, there are 9 Korean girls. Which means that Korean girls flirt all the time and wear provocative outfits to catch one.
This makes it easy for Korean men to abuse their wives and girlfriends. Even the guys who are too ugly and have to go to the Phillipines to get a wife, treat their women like dirt. I know this for a fact, because two of them asked me to help them kidnap their kids and get them back to the Phillipines.
What I really wanna say is kinda difficult, because I have a lot of good Korean friends. The men treat women like dirt and stay out late...I've done this with them and I am ashamed of it now. But some of them are really good friends. That's the truth. Friends ok...lovers...a big no no.
2006-07-13 05:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Porgie 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I personally see no problem with it. As long as you're not trying to identify as a Korean (or as what some people would call a "weeaboo" or "wapanese"), I'd say go ahead and appreciate the beautiful culture. Any culture, really! Every culture has something special, unique, and beautiful about it:) Btw, you asked for our onions? Hahahahhaha. Just had to point that out x)
2016-03-27 00:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm guys like that are just plain sick. no matter what ethnicity, i thinkj they're all the same.be bold and strong ask him right out what the heck he was thinking when he left you. yes guys in korea in my opinion are most likely to do this..but i have no idea. tell him your feelings and make him regret doing this to you. be the dominant one for once. tell him straight out on what you feel. im sorry if i couldn't help you much.
and yes im korean btw ^-^ if it makes you feel better
2006-07-10 20:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Peperrostix S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn;t a cultural question... it is an honesty question. Like any relationship, honesty is a priority. If you are uncomfortable about something, you need to talk either you will work it out together, or he isn;t the one you should be with
2006-07-10 20:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Talisman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT RIGHT WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOOSE... AND THIS QUESTION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH KOREAN CULTURE.... THEY IS ACROSS THE BOARD FOR ALL PEOPLE... THE WORST HE CAN DO IS LEAVE YOU ALONE.... THAT ONLY MEANS YOU GET TO GO OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE WITH THE POTENTIAL TO LOVE YOU BACK... GOOD LUCK
2006-07-10 20:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋