I have proposed a guy in my college through sms.He knows me by name.Now as our colleges r going to reopen on 17th, my frnd is saying tht u should go & tell tht guy tht u r tht gal who has sent him tht proposal message.I am confused tht shuld I tell him tht I am tht gal who proposed him & if I will go then may be he & his frnds will laugh on me.Though he replied me by saying tht He respects my feeling.I dont know wht to do.Plz help me.
2006-07-10 20:25:58 · 28 answers · asked by yadavgirl2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, do NOT let him know that you were silly enough to propose via the computer to someone you don't know well enough to do it to in person!!!
I agree, focus on your studies... relationships complicates things and detracts from higher learning.
2006-07-10 20:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what, I will answer this question seriously.
WHen I was in college there was a girl that I had a major crush on and I didn't know her at all, even though we had lots of mutual friends.
I tried to approach her and while I didn't do the best job of it I didn't exactly piss on the floor in front of her.
Regardless, a lot of those mutual friends acted like I was some kind of loser and people treated me weird after the fact etc. etc. etc.
It was very shameful at the time and I had a lot of emotionally difficult times as a result. I had been ridiculed a lot as a young child for being an ugly person, and some of the response I got from "friends" rekindled some of those insecurities and threw me into something of a depression.
After going through that though, I became a much more self confident person and I am even more brash around women then I ever could have been.
I am sure you will experience some embarassment, but if you can live through it and learn from it is actually good for you.
In the modern world people are more than ever too concerned with public perception and social convention etc. etc.
Maybe try to be a little more smooth with you method in the future, but don't feel like you have exposed yourself to badly. Whether they do anything about it or not, everybody is susceptible to infatuations, bizarre emotional experiences, etc. etc. etc.
Hang out with your friends and look toward the future when having learned from this situation you will have greater mastery over the next situation.
Don't worry, I can assure you from what I have seen here, that he was not able to decipher anything that you wrote to him anyway.
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2006-07-11 03:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your worried about his friends or both , them and him ? If him then why did you let this get out on hand , College ? Try walking up to him and just be nice , see how he reacts to you .Did he act like he liked you ? If not Don't ever tell him it was you .If he acts like he likes you then talk a little .Ask him if there is any girlfriend ? If he said yes then I hope it is you .BUT he could be SMS other females , in college some Adults are trying to make memories of the Thousand of dollars spent besides the education and degree part . Be more careful with your heart and words .
2006-07-11 03:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think they will laugh at you its because they probably will. Pretend that you have no idea what he's talking about if he ever brings it up and for gods sake dont ever tell him it was you. If you cant propose in person, how the hell are you ever going to live together. Get to know him and let him propose to you. When a man is ready he will. Dont pressure him or he'll freak out!
2006-07-11 03:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you again? Adults don't send anonymous messages telling someone you like them without saying who you are. What I would do is find something in common with him and randomly start a conversation with him. If it goes well you can give him your # and tell him that you guys should "hang out" someday. Eventually you may reveal that it was you who sent the message and laugh about it. If things don't go well, then you don't tell him you like him or about the message.
2006-07-11 03:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by exotica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at SOME point he's going to find out who you are, right? So go and do it! If he laughs at you, SO WHAT? At least you'll know what kind of guy he is (if he does that), and you will know that you shouldn't waste any more time thinking about him.
If he treats you well and wants to spend time with you, then you know that maybe he is worth the time and trouble.
A lot of us are afraid of confrontation and afraid to ask someone (or tell someone) that we are interested, because we are afraid of rejection. But life is too short not to go for it.
2006-07-11 03:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean u proposed? Do u actually know what u did? Have u even gone out with him? There is an order to these actions. Good Luck, I think, lol
2006-07-11 03:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by mamagirl65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt bother do to anything!!
Why in this World would you do something like THAT? Oh, maybe its the "thing" to do in College now days,(I hope my Son doesnt get one of these wacko things!)...
But, I highly doubt that he is going to hold you to something like that!
Besides, maybe, if he knows you personally, he may even think its genuine and come looking for you! Not as a stalker, but as some one genuinely interested in striking up a relationship and possbily marriage...
Who knows.... You may have done the right thing and your "prince charming will be waiting :)
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-11 03:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you proposed married to a guy on the Internet? I would get to know him and be friends with him first.
2006-07-11 03:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He Is With His Friends Tell Him U Want To Speak With Him Alone. Then Tell Him It Was U.
2006-07-11 03:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by rebel_dude42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋