i feel like **** because everytime i see my gf with another guy just talking i can't stand it and i get mad. i know it's not right but for some reason i feel like every guy is trying to steal her. she acts the same too sometimes but i think it is just because i always become jealous of other guys talking to her. what can i do to try stopping getting all jealous?
2006-07-10 20:08:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha thank you to the guy who knows guys DO try to steal chicks.
2006-07-10 20:20:02 · update #1
Okay. First thing. She's with YOU. Unless you two are going through a rocky period, there seems to be no reason to worry about her leaving you for another guy. There must be something she likes about you, so be confident. Most girls wont' just leave their b/fs for some other guy. Just remember that she is with you. And if it helps, when she's talking to these guys, walk up behind her and hug her or kiss her on the cheek. Its like a reminder that "you're mine" in a sweet, non-possessive way. Good luck!
2006-07-10 20:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you relies that she is yours .No one can take someone unless they want to be taken .Trust one word sums it up .The jealousy can really grow old fast and forces people to leave .Just when she's talking , walk a lttle away , then may be go back next to her "to show hey I'm here and she is with me " The same for her .A simple hand shake to the guy " hi I'm *&##@#, how are you ? " Not What up! ? Like a guard dog and he can't say hello to her .Now if she's flirting , then she is pushing your buttons and that's not good for the relationship eirther .One day at a time . Or no one will have to seem they are stealing her , she'll run .
2006-07-10 20:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen two animals on TV butting heads over a female? That's the feeling you are having, it's part of nature. You can get upset or you can remember that you are a human being and unlike these animals, you have the capacity to keep your emotions in check. Let her prove to you that there is nothing to be jealous about, if you keep getting upset you may just drive her away.
2006-07-10 20:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by RIVER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you sound like you are on your way to being a stalker or something. You need to get some help for this jealousy before it makes you do something that you and your girlfriend will both regret. Also, remember this, a man can not "steal" your girlfriend, she would have to go willingly, and if you keep acting like an idiot everytime she turns around you are going to drive her to it!!!
2006-07-10 20:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me jealousy is just another way to say that someone is insecure about their relationship. If you are doing everything that you are supposed to be physically and mentally then u should have no reason to be worried but if there are flaws in ur relationship then you might want to work on them so you will not have anything to worry about unless she is just plain done with you. And also jealousy can really kill a relationship trust me I know.
2006-07-10 20:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Soldier_boy76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You...have to learn to trust her, without trust there can be no relationship...
And by the way those other guys chatting with her? She might think it is all innocent and friendly, but they are really trying to steal her...you are right on there :)
2006-07-10 20:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the first answer, moron. Just relax, she's with you for a reason, she may or may not flirt but she is dating you. Try to trust her, just because you think every guy is after her doesn't mean she wants them.
2006-07-10 20:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Rebekah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they're only talking to her than you shouldn't be worried.
if they're trying to pick her up, hopefully you know and trust your girlfriend well enough to know she'd turn 'em down.
if you get 'really' jealous, counselling will help, you don't need to tell anyone.
if you don't trust her, you shouldn't be with her, or there may be a conversation about trust that you two haven't had yet.
but if you do trust her, you've got nothing to worry bout.
2006-07-10 20:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by L1ngg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is the worst enemy for a relationship! You both have to trust each other. Talk to each other about both your feelings that should help and make you feel better!
2006-07-10 20:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta have more confidence in you, her and your relationship...trust her enough to know that she won't cheat on you and don't think that she will...if you have confidence then when you see her talking to another guy you'll know that your the only one for her and you won't sweat it..chillax and stay calm..g'luck!
2006-07-10 20:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋