I have been with this guy for 4 months and then he broke up with me because it wasnt working out...just recently we started talking again and he wants to get back together..which im all for i love him!!! but the only bad thing is he works so much and i never get to see him. he lives about an 45 mins away from me so it takes a little bit of time to get here. But he gets up early goes to work comes home eats and goes to bed.. he does this every single day....should i stay with him? or is he just too busy...is he worth the wait? theres a lot more to this but...
2006-07-10 20:05:46 · 9 answers · asked by sweethurleygurley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please understand this guy i think that he is a good guy and don't hurt him don't be silly he his busy in his work only for u and he is saving for u right don't be confused continue speaking with him or if u meet somewhere else be closer and walk with him very closely he will remember u always right
2006-07-10 20:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by duda_suda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U said "is he worth the wait"? What exactly do u have to wait for?
I say don't bother- it sounds like u already doubt it.
I'll list some other things i don't like about this:
-Huge neglect is definitely bound to turn into a breakup after the initial honeymoon stage is over
-He's not gonna stop work for u cos it seems like he's not budging from this endless cycle of work (hard working man is good but seriously, does any girl like feeling neglected???)
-It sounds like he ain't gonna haul *** to ur place cos he gets home, eats and goes to sleep
-He just wanna piece of u and go to sleep while u drive/commute 45mins home
There's no balance in this relationship- ur gonna have to put all the effort into this- & all for what?----Nothing U'll feel like ur doing everything and he's gonna take advantage of the fact that he's got u wrapped around his little finger.
Believe it or not, there are actually guys who still do work and make time for g/f's and treat 'em like gold.
This guy is gonna be like (yawn) boring to u very very soon.
Another thing- cos he works- he's got no chance at meeting chicks- ur the only thing he's got!!!! U however have many chances at other guys!!!!!
2006-07-11 03:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by Nattas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him you want to try it out for a while... if you're not sure there's a reason why. Just take some time to think things over, and then try the relationship out a bit. If it doesn't work, then you know it's not meant to be.
2006-07-11 03:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by dreamweaver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess there is much more.
But generally, if this is just for a little time, it's OK. If he means to go on like this indefinitely... there is no much sense. What is either of you getting from the relationship? Is there any closeness, and lovesharing? Or is he just looking forward to you cooking? Um. Urgh!
2006-07-11 03:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants the relationship to work he'll make time for you. My boyfriend lives about the same distance away from me and he's busy working and going to school and so am I but we always make time for eachother.
2006-07-11 03:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your own question... don't you?
Alright, I'll help you! Move on! He's like that now and he'll always be like that!
Is that the kind of life you want? (I don't think so!)
And every day you waste on him is another day wasted on you! Time is ticking, don't waste any more of your valuable time on him... you'll only regret it in the end, (and it "will" end!).
2006-07-11 03:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey at least he works. this is a good thing if you love him then yes its worth the wait. one day he will prolly be at the top of his game and you will be financially stable. realtionships just take the time the energy. it wont always be like this
2006-07-11 03:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are already in doubt. Your heart already knows the answer. Listen to your heart.
2006-07-11 03:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by marketwizard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does ur heart tell you .... i believe u should just stay as friends.
2006-07-11 03:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by lalabubbles02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋