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So meet someone fabulous, things are great, you're the happiest you have been in ages and BAM! It's over. So now you are sad for a bit, mourn the break-up and what.. get back out there just to do it all over again? What the hell is the point of repeating that cycle????? Dating is depressing!!

2006-07-10 19:17:11 · 17 answers · asked by Chloe McIntosh 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

Dating can be very depressing but you are missing the point of going on a date.

"You have to kiss a few frongs before you can find your prince" this saying is very true, you shouldnt be down because you had a relationship what went wrong and left you broken hearted, the chances are you have broken more than a few hearts yourself.

Learn from what went wrong so that when you meet the next mr right you can make things work.
Never dwell on the bad things that happend only think of the good.

The point of a relationship is that you have someone who loves you as much as you love them, someone that will always be there for you whether you are right or wrong.

Give it a chance and it can work out but its upto you to put as much into the relationship as you are willing to take out,

2006-07-10 21:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 1 0

the point of repeating the cycle is to find some one to spend Ur life with
to find the one u r compatible with on the mental level not just the physical thing
to find some one u that will fight with u , laugh with u cry with u and get old with u
the point is everyone u no will forget u one day Ur friends will go on live there life's , Ur parents will die the only one who is going to be with u is Ur partner and to find that partner
u have to go through this cycle
it may look sad to u coz u may had been in a bad relationship
but gal this happens to all
its like rose it so beautiful but it have thorns and to pluck the rose u have to deal with the thorns first but after u done u see wht u have is just so beautiful.
don't think negative it will work out for u, its been happening for ages and it will happen for u to.
never to lose the word " hope "

2006-07-11 02:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0 0

Well, think dating is meant to be a straight line and not some curve or circle. It's meant to go all the way into church before the pastor or whoever is the congregation leader and Ding! Dong! (and not BAM!) I DO! So if you have been in circles then know that very soon you will be coming out of there into your own ding dong!

2006-07-11 02:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bennetton 1 · 0 0

Hi, Yes, this is not good. That cycle is repeated cause most people do not know the mean of real relationship. Realtionship is trust, love and stay together forever! Understanding each other. Would that guys may understand this! Bye.

2006-07-11 02:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Vappy 2 · 0 0

Initially that was not God's plan for love. It was meant to be one man one women for life and no dating but straight away into marriege for an everlasting relationship. but because man has fallen short of the glory of God and has decided to do what he wants, there will be no complete happiness in any relationship. The ups and downs will never end and that is a way of life for now.

2006-07-11 03:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0 0

You hopes are too high... it looks like you put too much pressure on you! Change your state of mind by saying to yourself... "tonight I'm going to go out, enjoy myself, have a good evening with that girl and who knows... you might see her again, you might not...." but in the end there's always something good round the corner.
In the end it's worth it because you had a good time, you've met new people, you've shared ideas, had a laugh and it's all positive!

2006-07-11 07:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by black_fairy282 2 · 0 0

yeah thats about the long and short of it, but we still keeping going back out there, do we learn? no. but its about about the high and low moments, you would never get close to someone if you never felt great about it, so in trun you need to feel low from time to time. you say dating is depressing, yes it is, if you really thinnk about it, its a great waste of time, but what a waste. if i had a choice of dating and having my heart broken or not trying, i know what i would go for, we both know that its going to happen in the end.

2006-07-11 15:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kickback 4 · 0 0

I didn't always feel that way. Before we all became whiny and self centred and promiscuous and materialistic etc, etc. Instead of working together to make something worthwhile out of it, we move on to the next as soon as it gets a little tough.
Lazy and non committal that's what we are.... Damn it we deserve to be alone.

2006-07-11 03:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by letem haveit 4 · 0 0

You are young. Dating is about finding a soul mate, you need to speed up your search, date for a few nights and then move on. I'm still at it after eons. I came close a few times though.

2006-07-11 02:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How many times, have you had the same. Was the second experience not different than first one. If not, thats something you need to look into. You should have known better to handle relation even if partner is not what you expected. And if it was different, you have your answer.

2006-07-11 02:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Raj 2 · 0 0

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