All right. I have been with this guy (bob) for about two months. He is really nice and great and i can tell he cares about me. The thing is that we are so opposite i feel i can't have fun with him. i like to go out and party and he would rather sit at home. I really like this other guy (kyle) and we are SOOO alike. we get along so great. so i want to break up with bob so i can be with kyle without hurting bob. i know bob will never find out about kyle so thats not a problem. i still want to be friends with bob though. i just dont know how to do it in a nice manner because my friends are bobs friends too.
2006-07-10 19:14:59 · 6 answers · asked by cunfuzd15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All right. I have been with this guy (bob) for about two months. He is really nice and great and i can tell he cares about me. The thing is that we are so opposite i feel i can't have fun with him. i like to go out and party and he would rather sit at home. I really like this other guy (kyle) and we are SOOO alike. we get along so great. so i want to break up with bob so i can be with kyle without hurting bob. i know bob will never find out about kyle so thats not a problem. i still want to be friends with bob though. i just dont know how to do it in a nice manner because my friends are bobs friends too. it's not like i am leaving bob for kyle either. i have been wanting to break up with bob but since i met kyle i finally realized i need to break up with bob.
2006-07-10 19:21:14 · update #1
ur gonna hurt him anyway, so just do it now itll hurt more if u wait, but a girl like u would just break up with anyguy, once u meet a better one, so watever, no way u can do it and still be friends,
2006-07-10 19:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by ron 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Share with him with full honesty. Just consider one thing, what if tomorrow a third guy is moooooooooore alike. Keep note of those words which you use with Bob so when you need for Kyle, you wouldn't need to look for it again.
2006-07-10 19:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just experienced this exact situation. I told him something like this: "I like you but I don't think we have a romantic or intimate connection. I just dont feel the romance anymore . Your the best friend I have and I dont want to lose that. I just dont want to waste anymore of are time on a relationship that I'm not feeling. Sorry."
Me and him just went to see 'Pirates of the Caribbean 2' last night as friends!
2006-07-10 19:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you anit really for him and you need to calm down.If you tell him that you would liek to be his friend and still hang I bet he will still understand but if he doesn't than he isn't the guy for you and not like other guys I know.Not every guy gonna understand that but if this one if nice and understanding he should.And also tell him you don't wanna ruin anything you guys have been though it might have been threw alot.
2006-07-10 19:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he is not the kind of guy you are looking for to date but someone who is more of a friend
2006-07-10 19:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP GIVING ''BOB'' SOME SEX EVERY NOW & THEN . HE WILL STILL BE YOUR FRIEND!!!
2006-07-10 19:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋