Aight, so theres this boy that likes me, not 2 be superficial, but hes just not my type n hes not that cute.Im real tight wit his homeboy and hes telling me go out with him, hes a nice person. But im just not sexxually attracted 2 him and i dont think hes boyfriend material. Hes a nice person, though. What shuld i do? shuld i give him a chance, cause he really likes me?am i wrong for only caring about the physical
2006-07-10 18:57:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant help the fact that you arent attracted to him. Just tell him that you think he is really nice but you arent interested. If you give him a chance, that will just lead him on and hurt him even worse in the end. It is better to be upfront from the beginning.
2006-07-10 19:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by vix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go out with him,maybe you will find something interesting that more than you are looking for with a cute guy!Cute guy BF doesn't mean you will be having a better relationship,it is something like a magic!I don't believe in love in physical attraction but I believe in love that develops towards your own feelings that will last and make both of you enjoy each others company!There is no harm in trying!Why not?
2006-07-10 19:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not attracted to him in any way, then don't date him. Don't date him out of sympathy either, or don't do it just because you want to give him a chance. It won't work out, and then you'll end up feeling guilty, and he'll be heartbroken. I did it because I wanted to be nice, and the end results were kinda messy, so my advice is to just stay friends.
2006-07-10 19:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well that sort of depends on you..I mean if you think that he deserves a chance than give him one lol...or maybe tell him that you'll go on a date with him and if at the end you didnt have a good time you won't concider..it's fair and it's not that rude coz at least you gave him a chance.
Take care.
2006-07-10 19:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're obviously such hot stuff that when you turn him down there will be 35 more guys pounding on your door and you can take your selection amongst them. Why even bother to talk to that loser again? He should just know that he ain't good enough to be playing with your fire. Gosh. I wish I was as great as you are. If I was as perfect as you then we could be king and queen of the prom together.
2006-07-10 19:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong for caring about the physical. And no, you should not give him a chance. You dont like him, honeybunch, and it will just cause problems and head aches later. But I am free if you want a booty call.
2006-07-10 19:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel where u r comin from, I had tha same problem on my hands 2. So, what I would reccomend is be real with him and tell him tha truth, he might not be able 2 cope with tha truth, but hey, tha fuccin truth hurts sometimes?! Eventullay, he'll get over it! Just keep it REAL homegirl, and everything will be fine! Holla & Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-10 19:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by melissa w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be forward and let him know ur not attracted to him, if u give him a chance it might lead him on, i mean that would be nice to give him a chance so he'll feel better about himself but what if he takes it the wrong way, its best to be honest from the start
2006-07-10 19:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see no one is perfect in the world & life dont go on smooth way, looks cant feed your hunger .the main thing of the person is the person's nature after few years looks will be gone but the mentality is with wich you have to live.
2006-07-10 19:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by harry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The object is to get the one that makes you happy and you
feel comfortable with. Think it through and you decide if he
is right for you. You might just stay friends for awhile and see
if it blossoms into love.
2006-07-10 19:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋