ok the thing is is that wen we get together and start making out then we start to do other things aswell and i want to but then again i kinda always want to because i realy love him and trust him,and if i tel him i dont wont to he will totally understand cause wev talked about it b4 its just that wen we get into it i dont want to stop.but i dont want to always do it and i always do how do i stop myself.i mean it feels realy good u no so i want to do it but hten again i dont cause i dont want that to be all we are about??? so how do i stop my cravings
2006-07-10 18:37:39 · 8 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By what you've written, I can see why. You seem a little compulsive and unable to stick with one conviction. It's called will power. If you don't have any, you'll just go with what you feel at the moment. You are one easily controlled person. Play now, pay later. Throw caution to the wind.
You don't need to stop the cravings, you need to control them. People who live for the moment rarely have much to show for their life later. They're gamblers with life. But even a gambler knows you can't play every hand and expect to come out a winner. You have to know when it's the right time to play and the right time to fold or walk away. It takes self discipline, and that's what you need to work on. Don't just think stop...Do it.
2006-07-10 18:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur boyfriend to have some limit to the extent he fondles u just tell him like i said earlier and like the people above me just said will power is the key start thinkin about exams ....or babies at ur age ....or something like ur mom waitin around th ecorner to catch u ...these r real mood spoilers trust me i know
2006-07-11 01:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by jak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Sweetie, I got lost reading your entry. Kindly make it clearer so I can properly give you some advice. Thank you.
2006-07-11 01:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't, unless you dont' start making out in the first place, you will feel it, then stopping is just about willpower, just don't be stupid when you do it, be safe and BIRTH CONTROL
2006-07-11 01:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other things to do. Have oral or go ahead and use birth control
2006-07-11 01:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of the most disgusting thing u can think of when cannot stop yourself trust me u will stop
2006-07-11 01:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by pumpkins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to have will power or forget it
2006-07-11 01:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by transplanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masterbate
2006-07-11 01:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋