how do you attract a good guy?

Answer 1

I would give the same advice that I gave my oldest daughter. Be a good girl, and remember to tell them, "My Daddy has a gun and knows how to use one."

Answer 2

Meet them where employed professionals meet for an after work drink. Just sit on the sidelines your first visit or two and observe! You don't want the guys that are hitting on all the ladies, getting smashed, staying late, etc. Look for the behavior that denotes responsibility and class. Choose the one drink, or soda only guy. Pick your watering hole carefully! Upscale near a business district works well. When you have your guy chosen....ask for his help. Leave your lights on in your vehicle, or loosen the battery terminal. Ask for his help..."the damsel in distress"! Devious, yes...but effective!

Not into the suit and tie crowd? Go to Bass Pro Shop (I assume you are in Atlanta from your name) and ask questions of the guys wandering around in the fishing tackle section. Tell them you are interest in starting fishing as a new hobby and need direction. Watch a few fishing shows on Sat or Sunday morning so you have some basic knowledge. Few single fisherman wouldn't love to have a lady to teach!

Go to different church or start going! The old battery trick will work here too. It he isn't afraid to get his "Sunday Best" dirty helping you out, then he can't be all bad! And at least he's in church and not a bar! Also it weeds out some of the married "Posers" who pretend to be single because their significant others will be with them.

Avoid "Clubs" like the plague...the only guys there are the ones on "Booty Patrol" anyway!

Go to the grocery stores and look at what men who are by themselves are buying. Tons of microwave food...single! No name food.....cheap! See one you like? Wait til he's in the checkout line and ram him good and hard with your buggy! Be embarrassed about it and offer to buy him a cup of coffee as an apology. If he turns it down then he is in a relationship or gay!

Happy Hunting!

Answer 3

"Good guy" by definition means a keeper.Yes? Be a good girl at all times. Be the kind of lady a "Good guy is going to consider a keeper. Learn all of the skills it takes to be an old fashioned lady.(those are not taught since womans lib has been around). Exercise and wear a minimum of makeup. Dress with class.

Answer 4

Depends what you mean by a good guy. I've been told so many times that I'm a good guy and that there aren't enough good guys like me, but every time I ask them out, I get rejected. I'm beginning to think it's not worth being a good guy. Attracting a good guy is easy really, be yourself. Don't be afraid to open up your life and heart, but not your legs. Good guys like girls that will stick by them through thick and thin and will always love them, much like girls really.

Answer 5

Fisrt rule.Never find a guy in a bar or disco.This is the guy that will be with you and still be going to bars and parties.
to whole thing is to finf somebody that share similar interests .You can check barnes and nobles ,Take a few books and go into the cafetria.You will find man that likes to read, very likelly to be open minded and smart(inteligent).Or if you like music and arts , you should go to places like theater, museum, etc.
YOu can't find a good guy in BAD places.Be careful, plus man younger than 25 is likely not to be ready for a serious relationship.

Answer 6

You must first drink the magic elixer called Grey Goose. Put it in a 7-11 Big Gulp cup and drink it with one of those bubble tea straws that can suck up those little balls of yummy goo. In this case, you won't be sucking up goo, you will be sucking up some sort of wonderful concoction of some fruity drink that won't taste like alcohol but some fruity drink you drank in middle school

Drink it up and let the magic take over. You will attract tons of good guys.

Answer 7

Make a connection on a personal level, but don't give up the milk before he buys the cow. That's the only way to know he is a good guy in the long run.

Answer 8

There's lot of good guys around, but we're usually told that good guys finish last and from experience, that seems like the way most good guys end up. We're usually the ones that get rejected cause we're not cool or buff enough, even though we may have good personality and heart.

Answer 9

Yes, others are on the right track...

Try being yourself, and if that "yourself" is a good person, then you will attract another good person/guy. Don't expect to meet quality people at bars - it happens, just not often enough to matter.

Answer 10

In a womans mind a good guy is a guy who does everything for them. He should work , make lots of money . Then come home and clean, cook and go grossery shopping . Sorry but these guys are so rare that it's hard to find them

Answer 11

I'm a good guy. And, I'm easily attracted. However, I'm pretty shy. So forwardness is important. Not necessarily slutty, but dropping hints may not do the trick alone. A good guy doesn't want to force himself on you.