WHY DO women pass up on all the good men?

Question

based on them not being cool enough, or "squares" and then when they reach their mid thirties, and they are all used up, passed around, full of babies, they hollar that they want a real man, Who would want to take care of someone elses kid and have sex with someone who is used up???? THIS QUESTION IS ASKED BY A MALE FRIEND OF MINE.

Answer 1

First of all your friends right. Why do women do this? Probably, because when women are young and attractive they can get any guy they want, so they go for looks or whatever turns them on, or as the saying goes "sow their wild oats". As they get older and their looks and beauty fade, they can't rely on their looks anymore to get guys and they got babies to take care of. Then they start looking for a guy to make them feel secure about themselves and to support their numerous babies. This is when they start looking for the good men to settle down with. Lastly, no, I wouldn't want to be with a women that's been passed around and has five or more kids with five or more different baby's daddies.

Answer 2

I guess the reason will be the same as when the men spend half of there life looking for some sexy cute blond all there life which is all in bars and clubs and is liberal enough to be in with you for long relationships without any commitment and serious relationship.

When they get 35 and start loosing there hairs they start looking for some one nice to get old with but still don't want baggage and issues. Then when they have that age passed and they become more desperate .

I guess every one act like that in this day an age . I call it the " SEX and THE CITY CURSE" We just don't know what we want and when ever we find some one we think that the next guy or girl will be better , more sexier , more good in bed , more rich or more loving and sensitive .

Answer 3

Women claim to mature before men, but when it comes to relationships, women are late bloomers. Maturity is a good reason why women continue to make bad decisions, when they're younger they don't see the long term affects of their decisions. Women think that they'll always look good, have no trouble getting a man, but llife happens. They have children, they lose their attractive shapes and b/c of their bad decisions they lose their confidence. Now what man wants a woman who has basically been beaten up emotionally and the culprit was the woman herself. Women do not like to take ownership of their bad decisions but instead blame the man, but if the man is a dog, then why did you lay down w/him, why did you not use protection, why did you repeat the same bad behavior? Women need to mature when it comes to relationships!!!!!

Answer 4

As a species (because that is what we are) we are controlled by nature, nature drives us to procreate, for that we select what is the best looking, most physically attractive specimen so that offspring's can be equally genetically enhanced. Of course in human relationships no one thinks this way or brings it down to the base level, but ultimately that is what attracts two people, you just don't realize it......

We are a species like every other animal, tell the buddy to watch two peacocks or a lioness courting if he doesnt believe it. All species, even fish, do it. We are no different.

That's why..

Answer 5

Girls almost always want the 'bad boy' when in reality a bad boy is good for one thing and thats about it. Luckily, I chose the 'good guy' at a young age. Seven years later we are still together and have two beautiful daughter's together. So not ALL women are like that. Keep your head up and someone with brains will come along and realize what you got to offer...oops what your 'friend' has to offer.

Answer 6

Tell your friend not all women pass up on all the good men. I have found a good man and yes, he is a square, but so what? He is all mine and I am happy. Thank God I am not "used up" and "haven't been passed around"!

Answer 7

Not all women do pass up the good men for I go for the good men and i got a good man for we've been married for 3 years now so tell your friend to just keep being a good guy for there's a girl out there looking for good guy like him and when he finds her or she finds him then he'll be a lucky guy or actually she'll be a lucky lady. KEEP YOUR CHIN UP!!

Answer 8

I have often wondered this myself...so......I did some research.(novel concept I know)

Women tend to be attracted to the cocky, tough, "in your face" kind of guy due to nothing more mystical than genetics. Since we are no longer a hunter gatherer society, the biggest strongest guy are not always the best pick, but due to ...(dare I say it?) evolution.....(let the bashing begin)..... women are still naturally attracted to the "tough" guy...it's not untill later, that they figure out and overcome the natural instinct. This of course is not hard and fast, as many women figure it out early. Instinct, is instinct...some can't beat it/////many can...that is after all what seperates us from the animal kingdom...we can overcome natural instinct as we have cognitive ability, the animal cannot...

So....nice guys do finish last........but we...(yes I am grouping myself in this)
Do...finish first now and then.......

Ladies....think about it......... that guy that you "love" but treats you like crap, it it really love? or simply instinct?

Have a great day

Answer 9

ok..does your really good male friend just happen to be you. YOU are the good man aren't you? Man, I am totally clueless of why anyone would pass up a whiney baby like you.

Answer 10

yes im a good man and good looking but women want security more than anything there is no such thinkg as a team to must of them