why do you hate ???

Question

i am a 20 year old mentally chalnged Kid who has Autism. for most of my life i hzave wondered on this question and have come to one conclusion to this answer why do people hate???

my answer for me is i dont know. to pu it simply i have realize for some unknown reason i dont possess the qualites or capactiy as it seems to hate another person or thing.

even to those who have killed my family members, those who abused my my best friend for all of her adult life for those people who molested me and those who tried to kill me for being gay i thought about it,
and i still come to the csame conclusion of forgivness since for me its the only option left and the only one there is.

yet others hhave tried and have hurt me for not doing so in hateing others becuase they killed my family Members.

i just dont see it why do people hate, i never understood it and have never realy hated anyone in my life.

why do people hate ???

Answer 1

Fear, ignorance, intolerance of anything that is or anyone who is different from them and their beliefs.

Answer 2

Thanks for your excellent question.

Even though you have autism, you really are doing great - you are connecting with people - wonderful!

As to your question, I won't be a hypocrite and say that I have never experienced the emotion of hate. I have.

I think I feel hate when I feel someone has mistreated me and/or my people badly.

For example, there are evil people in the world and they have done evil things. In the past, Hitler was most evil and I hated him for the Holocaust. In the present, I hate Bin Laden because the September 11th terror attack is his responsibility.

I don't think it's possible to forgive these people. OK, I have answered this on a political, historical level.

On a personal level, I also find it hard to forgive people when they have treated me badly. Perhaps, it's a response to feeling hurt and feeling victimized.

It's wonderful that you can forgive and that is a truly kind thing to do. Good for you and all the best.

Answer 3

I really don't know why. I do know that I have hated, but only for a short while, I got over it pretty quickly. In my case it was someone who physically hurt someone I loved. I have never really hated anyone else, though. I have also confused resentment and anger with hate. I find, that for me, hate & associated emotions tend to turn to pity. I feel sorry for the person, that they are so awful. it must be sad to be a really awful person. To have people hate you. I don't think anyone hates ME, but it is possible. It can be hard to gauge the effect you have on the life of another.

I guess I have really been of no help to you; I don't know why people hate, It sounds like you may have had reason to do so, but you should be happy you can't hate. You're not missing much; It isn't a pleasant feeling.

Answer 4

Having been hurt often leads to hatred... nobody likes to be a victim, neither a fool to be played around. But of course it is a very destructive feeling and those who cannot feel it, are the luckiest on Earth.
I think hatred has something to do with unused sexual energy, too... or with passion! In that case, it is just a "necessary evil".

View it that way, and you will understand better why people hate...

Answer 5

i can only say this. i take care of a m.r. who has a lot of anger issues. at birth the cord was wrapped around his neck. so his speech was impaired, and 43 years ago in rural Tennessee there was little or no help for him or people like him. if u ever saw him u would think him totally normal. but he is mentally a 12 year old physically he look like any 43 yo. my answer to you is i don't hate people i hate the way he and others had to be born. i understand that everyone should look diff.. & some are smarter then others but why does god or the devil whom ever, can do this to man or beast???

Answer 6

People hate what they fear simply because it makes them afraid and they fear what they don't understand or is different. It is unfortunate but understandable. We are not as evolved as we would like to think, and way back when the world was young, safety and security lie in what was known and understood. Anything strange or different could, and often would, kill you. Regrettably, we have not learned as a species that fear cripples us. Don't ever change your view--society needs you and others like you to lead and show the way. Have faith. Eventually the human race will grow up.

Answer 7

People hate because of may reasons: Greif, remorse, and differences are common.

The fact that you do not hate lifts you above the hating-communities.

When I hear of the hardships that you have gone through, I wonder if you are angry at some of the people you mentioned.
Anger without hate is a good tool to use.

Answer 8

People hate what's different than them. They see some people as oddballs and they attack. They hate the fact that someone needs attention more than they do. People who abuse try to spite others to put themselves in the spotlight on a consistent bases. They do this to feel better about themselves and to get their jollies off! These people are lonely and hurting also. The answer to these people is Jesus. Jesus is one who can deliver them from hatred of others. Pray for them and their deliverance!

Answer 9

Because people are blind to the real life and they live in a perfect fantasy world of riches and anyone different is not welcome to them. God pity us if we should ever touch their precious cleansed life from their dirty money. You hang in their because I have given my life to raise my handicapped daughter and fight for her rights just to go to a school and be taught with children . However our teachers have become lazy and want a perfect routine with no problems to deal with. They forget what trouble they got into in school. Oh well I am sure I have irritated enough people but where I live this went on and the world needs to practice the religion they preach and not be so 2-faced. Good Luck and know my thoughts are with you and don't ever tell yourself you can't !

Answer 10

i do not pay a lot interest to the Jonas Brothers, yet they do look kinda poopy. Miley Cyrus feels like a self-dependent total contained in the butt who's too grown. (Jonas Brothers look too baby like.) Who do I hate? Courtney Love is gross and ridiculous. obviously all of us hates Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie is disconnected from truth too. woman Gaga sucks!!!! She's so ugly and untalented. that is it! that is my answer! She had a music about dancing and she or he will't even bypass. stupid.

Answer 11

Hates just love founded through fear. Since fear is more common than love in today's world, hate will become more and more common.

Good begets good, Evil begets evil and destruction begets destruction.

What ever you do, creates more of it all over the world. So think before you act, or for saint johns sake, cover your tracks.