I was visiting my boyfriend for a week and we were having sex like 4 times a day... Then on the fourth morning, he slipped out of bed and didn't come back for a while so I went looking for him and found him looking at naked chicks!!!! WHY?? Is this normal or does this say something about him?? And/or ME???
2006-07-10 17:51:40 · 9 answers · asked by Sienna Baker 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be offended. Guys look at porn. It's in our nature. Girls shop all day; guys look at naked women. I've been in committed relationships, & still gone to strip joints. It didn't mean I loved my girlfriend at the time any less. In fact, one girl I was dating asked me about them, & wanted to see what all the fuss was about, so I told her she was welcome to go with me. I think she had more fun than I did. She said she never once felt like I was cheating on her, & even bought me a lap dance & paid extra to watch. She told me she could definitely see there was lust when I saw the strippers, but she also knew I wouldn't cheat on her, because she knew the look was nothing like the ones I gave her. She also said she had fun watching me continually check the mirrors so I could avoid the cash pitcher they passed around to "help pay for the music". By the time we got home, she was pouncing on me, & a lot more secure in my feelings for her. In a way, I think it made her feel closer to me than if I stayed home all night & never looked at anything arousing, & she understood me a bit better. We'd probably still be together if not for other problems. Ironically, one of those was she had cheated on me early in our relationship, & let the guilt eat away at her for a year before telling me. In a way, she ultimately resented me because I wouldn't cheat on her, too. Weird, huh? So, take it from a guy who loves looking at naked women, & who has never cheated on a girlfriend in my life: don't worry about it. Frequent sex actually increases the male sex drive, so he's probably masturbating more, too. It's all perfectly normal.
2006-07-10 18:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll try to explain it the best I can.. It is perfectly normal for a guy to look at nude chicks. that does not mean he loves you any less or cheating on you. Men are hard wired in there brain for visual stimuli, as to women are more into fantasizing or thinking into the mood. some guys look at them more than others. And by the way of you saying you two are having sex 4 times a day, he's probably a little oversexed and needed that visual to get back in the mood, so basically instead of risking hurting your feelings by asking you to slow down, he's trying to keep up! just don't pressure the issue on this because it might just turn him off completely. now if he starts to prefer the pics over you, then it's time to move on.
2006-07-11 01:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by T s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything at alll wrong with you except maybe you make it too easy for him to have access to you. Do not let him take you for granted. Did you want the sexual act that often or did just to please him.
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Guys look at girlie magazines. I don't know why, but great guys
husbands and fathers do this. I don't like it either, but I think it is a natural thing men do.
2006-07-11 00:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys will be guys. That's all I can say. They think about sex like a million times a day!!!!
2006-07-11 00:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, its normal, if hes doing it with u 4 times a day, trust me ur not doing anything wrong, he's just looking b/c... well.... he likes p0Rn, hell for all u know he could b researching some new stuff for the next time u do it
2006-07-11 00:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by branmcin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's totally normal, men are more visual, they just need it....try buying a polaroid camera....that's fun, and it'll make you feel better to find him looking at YOUR naughty pix :)
2006-07-11 01:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by mommaswildgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just po rn. Ignore it. It doesn't mean he's any less attracted to you.
2006-07-11 00:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, will you get over yourself, and please let the poor guy have some alone time with little dude.
2006-07-11 01:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just wrong of him. why dont you come over and we can resolve this matter.
2006-07-11 00:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by bullfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋