My girlfriend has recently told me that she has slept with my sister. I knew that my girlfriend is bisexual but I never knew that my sister was too. I really love my girlfriend and she loves me alot too.
Should I forgive her???
2006-07-10 17:37:31 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would forgive her and if you're lucky maybe you can get a threesome with you, your gf and your sister. Your sister must be really hot for your gf to want her.
Next time you go down on her, just think, ur tasting your sister as well :)
2006-07-11 08:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by ostreds2002 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's up to you whether or not you can forgive her. People can tell you all they want that it's a good idea to forgive her, that it was one indiscretion and since you love her you should try to get past it, but it comes down to whether or not you CAN forgive her. If you can think about her and not think about what her and your sister did, then there's a good chance you can forgive her, but that all depends on you! If you can find it in you to forgive her, for real, then I'd suggest letting her know how much it hurt you and that you love her and you wouldn't cheat on her, and if you mean anything to her she won't cheat on you either. If it were your brother, you'd probably be a lot more upset with her than you are right now, so take into consideration that cheating is cheating-no matter the gender. I hope things can work out!
2006-07-10 17:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by Skitz628 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a "Dear Penthouse" letter to me..
As for your situation.....before you offer forgiveness.....is this just a one time gig or is this going to happen again? Can you live with the fact that your girlfriend is sleeping with you AND your sister? These are questions that can only be answered by yourself. From there you can make the right decision.
I'm not against her being bi-sexual.....just thinking about your future. And if by chance, you end up on Jerry Springer....please wave and say hello....(That's why I'm suggesting you think before you act.....this is the sort of stuff you see there)
2006-07-10 17:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by baciandrio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...if you had a brother, would you forgive your girlfriend for sleeping with him? You have been betrayed by the two people who supposedly love you. Who needs enemies?
All this aside, you will need to forgive your girlfriend...after you break up.
One exception....if you girlfriend slept with your sister BEFORE you started dating her, that is pretty damn creepy. but you should just go ahead and forgive her now and get past this. Again, if your girlfriend slept with your sister AFTER you started dating, you are a damned fool to spend another second with her...what is stopping her from doing this again..? Who will it be next? Your dad? Your best friend? Damn. But you will need to forgive her once you don't have to trust her fidelity anymore (i.e., you've broken up).
2006-07-10 17:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by trixwagen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a tough one and it really depends on what kind of relationship you have with your sister. I think the best thing to do is sit down with your gf and your sister and talk about what has happenend. You need to ask questions and you need answers too. Tell them how you are feeling and be totally honest about it. In the end only you can decide if you and your girlfriend will be together. It's not up to anyone else.Can you forgive her for what she has done?...Trent
2006-07-10 17:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by City C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because whatever she loves about you she sees in your sister too, and she was honest enough to tell you. If you accept her bisexuality you will have to accept this because obviously if you two stay together she is going to be looking for women to satisfy her bisexuality. People like this cannot have a single relationship ever. They have to have both to be satisfied.
2006-07-10 17:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must feel terrible. You were betrayed by your girlfriend and your sister. I hope you can talk with your sister and get past it. Your sister will be your sister no matter what.
As for the girlfriend, get rid of her now. She not only cheated on you, but did it with your sister. Cut your losses and find someone who will treat you right.
2006-07-10 17:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to forgive her, because it's probably hard on her right now. She's probably trying to figure herself out between you and girls. Talking it out with her also makes things a lot better. Since she's bisexual, it would make things hard for you guys to continue, but it really depends on her. I'd say, just do whatever makes her happy.
2006-07-10 17:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To err is human and to forgive is Divine.So there is nothing wrong to forgive her. But maintain a distance after that.Dont share sex with her anymore................. This is not as simple as asked.Sit and give a deep thinking .Dont proceed further in such a relation which may result in incest later.
2006-07-10 17:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by chdman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-10 17:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by r r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋