I'm in a kinda realtionship with some one older then me i also dated some one he is very closely related to. I have fallen in love with him but he treats his realtive like garbage i think it's because of me some what do i tell him the rest of his family and i have both told him not to treat him that way.
2006-07-10 17:10:42 · 15 answers · asked by angels192002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with defiant rose. but want to add that age is all relavent, if you are 12 and he is 22, there is a problem, if you are 22 and he is 32 there is not as big a problem, if you are 32 and he is 42 there isn't hardly a problem at all. If your 32 and he is 18, you got it going on!!! But anyway, it is not so much age as it is if he is controlling, sometimes guys that date younger women become controlling because they are either insecure or they assume the fatherly role, either way it is bad news!!!
2006-07-10 17:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no kinda about it your in the relationship or your not and you never want to date someone that's much older then you for you don't want to be 20 dating a 80 year old for then your not going to have much in common then again i do know someone that was 30 and she dated a 18 year old and they got along great but then again that's because he acted older then what his age was so i guess it depends on the person and how mature or immature they are. for this guy treating his relatives like garbage it could be because of you or it could be a thousand other reasons for his actions but if he's good to you then don't worry about how he treats his family for that's his prob not yours. the other one that you dated well that's over so forget it and work on the relationship your in now for your not dating the family your dating him and that's all you got to worry about now is him and you. GET IT, GOT IT, GOOD!
2006-07-10 17:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you look at a guy your interested in, look at how he treats his family, especially the close relatives. Eventually, if you stay together, he will end up treating you that way also. I've been there, and it hurts when you take the rose colored glasses off for the first time.
2006-07-10 17:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Defiant_Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say 2 years but if one of the persons is 18 and the other one is not then there should not date and if there 5 or more years you should ask your self why you like them and why they like you cause it could be just cause your younger and that's a problem
and some one related to you is not some one you should be dating sorry
oh and i hope this helps you
2006-07-10 17:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by bleachedspirit8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you. I am 22 and my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years is 37. I couldn't be happier!
2006-07-10 17:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by churppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfect, no longer in my opinion...i grow to be the greater youthful woman in a 13 12 months relationship. i grow to be 19 whilst it began. right this is the 1st situation-I grew up, and he did no longer. when I no longer held the visual attraction and innocence that went alongside with being 19 he began dropping pastime and as quickly as lower back began procuring interior the "jr omit section". The 2cd situation is that as quickly as there is this way of super age distinction-the guy often develops a "daddy" character, which could be relaxing till now each thing, yet often will become a administration difficulty-the place he feels he has the main suitable suited to tell you what you're able to do, who you are able to flow out w/, ect... the main important situation I had with it grow to be no longer being given the possibility to journey the rigors and tribulations that are linked with "transforming into" up-he assumed when you consider that HE had already "been there, performed that", that i did no longer ought to have that have, because of the fact he already had...i grow to be additionally punished for desirous to in the process the "ranges" of turning 21, being a 20something...he had his wild and loopy little ones, yet i grow to be denied mine-lower back because of the fact he had already performed it-and did no longer see the choose for me to do it as properly. The youthful lady/previous guy senario is okay for a fling, yet no longer a reliable concept for a protracted term relationship.
2016-12-14 06:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by bilodeau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as yer both over 18, i don't think age really matters. It's if your both want the same thing i.e. kids marriage home stuff or just sex and fun
2006-07-10 17:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nowadays age is only a number, except when it comes to minors and adults. I personally know a 43 year old who is married to a 26 year old, so all that matters if you are an adult is love, age is only a number.
2006-07-10 17:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you are comfortable with. Personally, I am not attracted to girls older than me. One of my friends is dating a guy 4 years older than her. A teacher of mine dated high school seniors when she was a freshman.
The bottom line is whoever you find yourself attracted to
2006-07-10 17:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by trainboy765 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my names sabrina too . haha. nayways i am dating a guy that is almost 7 yrs older than i am . ... i think he holds a grudge against him for being with you . just tell him that he is the one for you nd always will be and nothing can change that ,
2006-07-10 17:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋