my ex broke up with me a month and a half ago..hes already dating someone else..yet he asks me if i miss him or if i have been thinking of him...and hes always calling me and he gets mad if he sees a picture of me and my guy friends or if i talk about a guy to him..does he still have feelings for me??
2006-07-10 17:04:58 · 43 answers · asked by prettylilady05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has feelings for himself. I have to be real honest here, because I am a guy, and I have been just like this guy at a certain time of my life. He wants to have fun and do what he wants to, but in his ego-driven, testosterone induced, teritorialist mind, he still sees you as "his" in a certain way, so he can't just be happy for you to move on. Obviously he doesn't think twice about a new interest in his life, but even the thought of the same in yours is not acceptable to him. He is clearly only thinking of himself. My advice would be to forget about him and wait for someone who is more emotionally stable to come into your life. Some guys will always think this way, but there surely are plenty who are more mature, and do not view you as a property, which is what he is doing. Remember, I am saying this from experience, but I do not know the entire situation, so don't take what I say to be totally applicable, just think about it, and see if it makes sense. But I'm sure you will meet someone better.
2006-07-10 17:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by tok913 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he enjoys other girls and has moved on, but would like to keep you as his play thing on the side, and control you, because he knows you still have feelings for him. He uses tactics such as getting jealous, asking you if you miss him, and attempts to maintain communication with you after dumping you. He should be ashamed of himself. Do not take his calls, entertain his manipulative ways, allow him into your home, and certainly do not give up any personal information about your new love life that he could use against you. It's over, and both of you need to end the games for your sake and your sanity. You truly deserve better than this.
2006-07-10 17:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he definitely has feelings for you. What kind of feelings? That I'm not sure. He's obviously too possessive of you and that's a bit unfair for you coz he's the one who broke up with you and yet he gets mad if you spend time with guy friends. He has started dating, so should you.
Move on. You deserve better.
2006-07-10 17:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by madrasta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he has feelings of jealousy and positiveness that are not normal for someone who broke up with you. This is unhealthy and you should in the future when he calls hang up on him and ignore him, a person like this feels he doesn't want you but he still doesn't want any one else to want you or for you to have a good life, in other words, he is sick and you should beware.
2006-07-10 17:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe or maybe not. Some men want to do whatever they want, but don't like the idea of an ex moving on with her life. If he broke up with you and is dating someone else, why does it matter how he feels about your current activities? It's none of his business.
2006-07-10 17:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have feelings for you, but in this case he sounds like he's looking for an ego boost. He revels in you missing him and thinking about him a lot. Of course he doesn't want any other guy to come close to you. The biggest ego boost of all for him is feeling he is still ruling the roost. Does he still have feelings for you? I'm sure he feels something. I'm just not sure it's what you're looking for.
2006-07-10 17:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he can move on is fine with him, but seeing you with someone usually angers the other, guy in this case. Don't think too much about it, if he does care, he'll try to get with you again. Just be calm and have fun!
2006-07-10 17:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by John McGrawl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being possessive about you, even thou he has broken up the relationship. I feel that there is something still left in your relationship. Your comments suggest that he still wants to get back to you. Maybe his fresh dating experience was not so good.
Take care
Ps.: If he approaches you again take a calculated decision.
2006-07-10 17:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by viper4in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. What I mean is that he wants to be with this girl... but just in case things with her don't work out he wants to keep you on the back-burner... So hes trying to confuse you about his feelings... he wants you to keep hanging on so that if he ends up needing to, he can come back to you. Most likely hes not doing it bc he has feeling for you... if he did, he wouldnt be with that other chick.
2006-07-10 17:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's dumb.. if he still has feelings for you he wouldn't be with this other girl that he's dating. :\ that sucks.... OH wait you said if he has feelings for you.. Yea he probably does.. .it's not love though. Someone that loves you isn't going to dump you and get with someone all fast... but yea you should move on and get a better guy.
2006-07-10 17:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ginger B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋