She didnt show up cuz she sadi I never give her an invitation, but I'm like your my girlfriend i expect you to be at things like that and I didnt think that i would have to invite you-I thought it was laready out there..Guys and girls please cuz we always argue ove rit and i think she's wrong...
2006-07-10 16:40:38 · 15 answers · asked by Eric K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably wanted to be there to support you. the first lesson you need to learn is not to assume anything. communication is the key to everything. good and bad. if she didn't want to be there she wouldn' t have been and you should be very proud that she wanted to be there for you. a lot of people have absolutely no one to care about them.
2006-07-10 16:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by bimbojackson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough call, it could go either way. First of all I would think that a girlfriend is automatically going to attend your graduation. However, in her defense, if you already have a lot of family attending, she might have thought that it should be a "family" thing, and didn't want to interfere. You need to talk to her to see why she didn't go. I don't believe that the only reason was because she didn't get an invitation. (unless it was one of those graduations that limited the number of guests you can have, due to the size of the building). Good Luck
2006-07-10 16:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is somewhat complicated, yet when im expertise wisely... you baby became invited to a grad celebration yet by technique of a classmate, sending a present may be the right ingredient no matter if it became from an similar type, no longer some thing enormous only a small congrats you probably did it present, if the grad is a lady, flora may do the trick. or in the journey that they are quite close acquaintances a pictures of both one in each and every of them with a lil WE DID IT body. on the accurate of the day they're celebrating a commencement. desire this facilitates and if im completely off topic sorry :-)
2016-12-01 01:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by nourse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't assume anything in a relationship. The fact that you automatically include her as an important part of all your personal events and milestones proves your love for her and is very sweet. But, she needs to know how important she is to you... Help her to feel that she is included by letting her know. Women are creatures that are motivated by emotion. Making an effort to include her, by telling her, will keep the peace and remind her that you love her. If you don't it will come off as if you don't consider her important, or that you are just indifferent towards her. Choose the easier route and remember to invite her.
2006-07-10 16:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should invite her 2 everything even tho u don't think u would have 2..it would make her feel more secure about the situation & u wouldn't argue as much!
2006-07-10 16:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by biGGestDitzEva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly its a two sided answer.One way to look at it is from her side.She most likely didnt think you wantted her there. most females are unsure in a relationship because they dont know where they stand.They normally try not to smother you so they dont know when you want them there without an invitation.From your side you might not have really thought abought it and took it for granted by expecting her to go.Keep in mind she may fear going where shes not invted will cause you not to want her around.No one can read your mind so speak up.
2006-07-10 16:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by salean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because shes your girlfriend dosen`t mean she wouldn`t have liked to have been invited, it makes people feel more special when you show them a little extra attention.
2006-07-10 16:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should have invited her. She might have felt you didn't want her there if you didn't ask her to come. Of course she would have wanted to have gone, but you should have given her the okay to do so.
2006-07-10 16:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds pretty nuts.
I guess she's not technically wrong, but I can't imagine good things coming from being with someone who needs such things spelled out for them.
2006-07-10 16:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by QED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you dude but she is right, if you didn't invite her she didn't need to show up even though she is your girl
2006-07-10 16:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋