Ok so I've been with my bf for almost a month and really like him,no problems,last night I had this dream about kissing this guy I used to have a crush on before I knew my bf.Also before I had this dream I had been thinking about the fact that my bf still hasn't kissed me.Why and what does this mean?Serious only!!!!!
2006-07-10 16:23:38 · 11 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First my bf has kissed me once.Very quick,he not big on pda and neither am i .I told him I wanted to take it slow cuz he has had a lot of gf and I've had very few bfs.
2006-07-10 16:39:16 · update #1
Also cellm8te you are so treading on thin ice.
2006-07-10 16:41:21 · update #2
Cellm8te didn't you read the question
2006-07-10 17:46:15 · update #3
You're a sweet pea I can tell. Don't fret. You've probably been wondering why your current boyfriend has not kissed you and you dreamed about kissing someone. It could have even been a stranger in your dream. It really doesn't matter who was in the dream. I think it is nice that your boyfriend is taking his time. I don't believe your dream means that you really should be with "the crush". Dreams have meaning to them but they usually are deeper than what you remember dreaming.
2006-07-10 16:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
A) your dreams are your subconcious speaking to you. It doesn't mean that you were cheating or any such nonsense.
B) Why not talk to your bf about why he's not being intimate, such as kissing? Chances are you miss kissing, and you dreamt your crush into the situation because you aren't sure how your bf is at it. Better to dream someone into the situation than dream your bf there and have it turn out to be not what you wanted.
Could also be possible that you're feeling neglected by the bf, and therefore dreamed the crush into the situation instead. You didn't do anything wrong sweets. Just talk to the bf, and get stuff straight. More relationships fall apart because of a lack of communication than anything else.
PS: Quick note to stockholm here: a "real man" doesnt get jealous over dreams. Most of them are intelligent enough to know that dreams are uncontrollable. Jealousy isn't a sign of a secure relationship, its a sign of an *insecure* relationship.
2006-07-10 23:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by imnoangel325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf still hasn't kissed you after a month, something's definitely wrong, and it's not your dream. Your dream is a manifestation of your desire for intimacy, seeing as how your bf doesn't kiss you. Don't take it too far; you weren't cheating and you have no intention on acting out on the dream.
2006-07-10 23:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering how old you are? Anyway, dreams are normal so I wouldnt let that one bother you. Your new boyfriend sounds like a really decent fellow, he is waiting for the right time and moment to make that special moment mean alot. Take the time to get to know him, his likes and dislikes. Spend good times together, there will be plenty of time for all the rest. Be patient.
2006-07-10 23:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's a little shy and doesn't want to risk being rejected if he makes a "move" on you. Perhaps he's biding his time waiting for positive "signals" from you that shows him you like him as much as he does you.
2006-07-10 23:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by helpful guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u really do need to tell him about the dream, see how he'd react, if he gets mad, then he doesn't really love u..., if he accepts it like a man, then he really do love u...
2006-07-10 23:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have bad breath? I'm serious!
If your answer is NO! Can i kiss you?
2006-07-10 23:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by cellm8te 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your bf is a whimp...... and your dream means that you dont want a whimp.........maybe you think your crush would have allready kissed you if you were hooked up....... thats my answer.
2006-07-10 23:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by cat yall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him whats his problem...
is he shy? shy guys take a long time
to make a move...and that's annoying
and you should move on
2006-07-10 23:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lynette♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams is just nothing forget abt it, does nt mean any thing.
i get strange dreams too.....
2006-07-10 23:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by who is this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋