How physical do you get on the first date? Do you set a plan to only go so far? How well does that work?

Answer 1

If you are asking that, you have already thought about going too far. So the question is.... are they worth it and can you live with all the results? Just set the boundaries for what you will not do and don't do it. Then enjoy the evening.

Answer 2

honestly. I place no restrictions on what could happen. There have definitely been first dates that end in sex. And there are others where nothing physical happened at first. It all depends on the vibe and the chemistry.

Answer 3

take it slow,
take it slow
take it slow.

When i was young and dating, i wanted to be respected, and yet if i chose to go out with the person i was with it was because he was sexy, good looking and "rang my chimes"..
THE PROBLEM WAS,, MY HORMONES,

My best friend who had more control according to her version of her dates, waited a long time before doing "THE WILD THING"..
or so she said, i guess i believe her,

me, on the other hand, if the guy kissed me, and it turned me on, Oh my goodness did i have trouble, i practically had orgasm, while still in my clothes,
I am being serious now,
I wanted sex, as much as the guy, and my body "ached for it" BUT I ALSO WANTED TO be "wanted" AFTER THE DATE,,
i STRUGGLED WITH THAT DILEMA, AND HAD MANY TEARS SHED BECAUSE SOME GUYS (HORMONES DICTATE THIS) would get impatient, with me, pushy, insulting, or Romantically lie to me, to get me to Relax and go for the gusto,,

it was so frustrating, because i wanted to be a 'girlfriend" NOT A "LAY", one night stand etc,,

If you are easy, they will remember you as easy, (unless they are extreemly insecure, or a-sexual) so i say go slow, unless you like casual sex

Answer 4

don't set forth any rules.just respect yourself and your decisions.