a boy that i met last year proposed me to be his gf,and i accepted his proposal...
unfortunately,i'm not really sure about my feelings toward him because we're not studying in the same university...
sometimes i don't have any feelings toward him
but when he called me, we'd talk for a very long time!
what do u think?
2006-07-10 16:09:55 · 18 answers · asked by LEE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep it on a friendship level,you dont sound as thrilled about it. but with time you just might fall in love with him.
Get to know him better and just wait and see whats in store for you
2006-07-10 16:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Swit_cakes 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you and him did have an attraction to each other but over time that attraction has turned to friendship.
You need to tell him that you dont feel the same way anymore and want to friends as you dont want to lose him as a friend.
This wont be easy and will end up causing heartbreak but its a choice of either telling him now or you end up meeting someone else and cheating on your boyfirend which will eventually lead to your boyfriend finding out that way.
Try having a break from each other first and decide what you really want, if you still feel the same in a month or two then you probably should break it off and let each other get on with your own lives.
2006-07-11 03:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck is "proposed" to you to be his gf? That's the goofiest thing I've ever heard. No wonder people don't understand marriage and commitment anymore. It's all become part of the dating game.
What I think is less talking and more thinking. Is this the way you'll approach a marriage proposal. Say yes, and then decide if you really want it? I think you should call it all off and start learning again from scratch...without the games.
2006-07-10 23:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even you not studying in da same university but you could still keep in touch with him using your phone or with your mail. Feelings of love and trust that you hope from him, not betrayal anddishonesty right, thats why you must take precaution of him. You talk for a very long time with him maybe because he is the person that you already known and you alreadyuse to be friend to. Maybe u should being his friend until you think he is the bect to be your boyfriend.
2006-07-12 19:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Haris_murshidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marraige is a massive step. if you dont want to become another depressing divorce statistic, hold off the wedding.
theres a difference between loving someone and being in love
2006-07-11 00:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by busted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably seems like you're not really in love.... if u talk for a really long time.. maybe he's better as your friend... friends talk on the phone for long amounts of time... i can't really be totally sure... but i think you'd make better friends.. good luck!!
xox- manda
2006-07-10 23:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are more friends with this guy than bf and gf.
2006-07-10 23:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by pinkpuppet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up girl u no if u like some one its a feeling that only u no but it sounds to me like a friendship
2006-07-11 04:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are just friends only now.Wait for it to turn into relation
2006-07-11 00:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just trying not 2 offend him is it ? if not just tell him straight . u might hurt him more if u prolong tis .
2006-07-10 23:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋