I am going into grade 10 in september and i have never been kissed or had a boyfriend, and everybody i know is dating! I dont think i am pretty or even slightly good looking, cuz i am slightly overweight and only 5 feet tall. i am not in a huge rush to date, but i am just wondering if i need to change to try and attract a guy? and if guys only like the thin and tall girls?
2006-07-10 16:08:06 · 12 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well there u go
ur not confident at all... give urself some credit!!!
dont let ppl tell u ur not pretty, i bet u are!!!!
just go out there, and be you.... and a sweet sensitive guy will fall head over heels...
2006-07-10 16:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Amy,
You are being blessed. I had my first boyfriend when I was 19. That was two years after I'd moved out on my own. I was always tall and thin. And am told I look like a combo of Sandra Bullock and Julia Roberts by many that I meet. And still .... I didn't have a boyfriend and I'm telling you we are much better off than others who revolve their worlds around dating. There is nothing wrong with you!!!! Never change yourself for any guy. There is a guy out there who will like you just the way you are. Just wait for him. Happy waiting. It's worth it.
Past Dateless Teen
2006-07-10 23:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going into grade 10 too next week. i've never been kissed,, never had bf,, and i don't think i have a good Look--i'm not reaLLy taLL and not reaLLy skinny,, so we're the same. but i think that's not the probLem. the probLem is,, how i Love myseLf just the way i am.
come on,, Love urseLf. if u don't Love urseLf,, ur inner beauty cannot come up. u're expecting guys to Love ya,, but u don't even Love urseLf! physicaL things are just a temporary thing,, honey.. but inner beauty wiLL aLways be with u no matter what.
though,, if the worLd's fuLLfiLLed onLy by skinny and taLL girLs,, what's great on it? xP so the key is just LOVE URSELF!
2006-07-10 23:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by mariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine just quit comparing yourself to other people.I was at a club picnic yesterday and saw two of the most popular girls in my class from 1968 and I sure would not want to be them today. Remember this and think about it 15 years from now. A lot of people reach the peaks of their lives in high school and that is as good as it gets for them and that is what is sad.What I am saying is that your life will only get better. Good luck kid and don't rush life because it will not be to long before before it will be coming at you faster than you want.
2006-07-10 23:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you trust Christ to handle things for you?
1 Corinthians 7:1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
Jumping too fast into physical relationship is not good.From a Christian perspective you should be looking for someone of like mind to date.
2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
2006-07-10 23:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER have to change for anyone. If it would make you happy to change then that's when you do it. There is nothing wrong with you. Don't even worry about guys now, there is so much more to life. If a guy cannot see you for you, then he isn't a guy worth having anyway.
2006-07-10 23:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you drink water or diet soda and avoid sugary drinks. Make sure you do bike riding or something like dancing 3x per week. Being overweight can be that one cookie you eat each day that you could turn down.
2006-07-10 23:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to dating is not the important thing of the life and you have nothing wrong... keep respect yourself and when you will find the right man for you , then you give yourself for him. you are not wrong... the society is wrong... dating at that early ages , having baby etc... is not normal... teen should to be teen and not having and adult life...
Keep being yourself .... I encourage you to do it....
Respect yourself and find someone who will respect you when the time will be there...
2006-07-10 23:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u almost described me except that im 6' & ur 5' but you r like the same thing as me rite down to the t
2006-07-10 23:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by brilliant blonde babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think your beautiful guys will to stop tripping email adress amartzgstat@yahoo.com
2006-07-13 14:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by addumb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋