My friend has this boyfriend whos more of a pimp and has a second girlfriend. And she does `love him` love him. What should she do? Or how do I tell her without ruining her sensitive spirit?
2006-07-10 16:00:48 · 21 answers · asked by Karen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even if it ruins your freindship, set her straight.
Why not give her a "heads up" and let her see the light of day, instead of keeping her in the dark, (if she doesnt know).
And, if she does know, then you can voice your opinion and be done with it. She will live her life the way she wants, but, you can be there to help her, when she crashes and help pick up the pieces for her...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-10 16:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really care about your friend then don't let her get dogged out by some wanna-be pimp. Let her know but don't throw it in her face and tell her that she needs to dump him. The last thing a girl wants to hear after someone tells her, her man is cheating, is someone telling her "oh girl you need to leave him." Let her decide if she wants to stay with someone who cheats on her.
If she doesn't believe you give her evidence. Pictures are better than words sometimes. And just let her know that you're looking out for her well-being (both physical and emotional). You don't want her to be a statistic and end up with a STD because her boyfriend wants to stick it in anything he sees.
2006-07-10 16:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by sexxyredcaramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you care about your friend, but there isn't a whole lot you can do for her. You can try and convince her that she deserves so much better than this pig. Just remember not to be to harsh when talking to her about it because she does love this man. Just be there for her and help her through whatever happens.
2006-07-10 16:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next on Jerry Springer
2006-07-10 16:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by downdrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, tell him to dump the pig, then stay out of it. If there is one thing that will ruin a friendship is getting between the cross fire. If he finds out he will spread rumors about you, or tell her not to hang out wiht you. And lets face it, we all listen to our boyfriends over our best girl friend.
2006-07-10 16:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Aria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her spirit is goin to get hurt no matter what if she loves him, but it comeing from you she might not eleive it unless she tusts you 100 percent. I would tell her or set it up to where she catches him herself.
2006-07-10 16:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him that you and your friend are in a fight, and that you want to have sex with him. but both of you swear not to tell. if he goes with it...then she should def. dump him. but tell your friend of the plan first so she doesn't get mad. but either way...no one deserves that. she should dump him, even if she loves him and is a good guy.
2006-07-10 16:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by oh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him straight and dump him
2006-07-10 16:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it....That is messed up....Try taking her for a girl's night out to get her mind off of him and set her straight.
2006-07-10 16:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that in order to get anyone to respect her, shes gotta have some self respect....... Be a good friend & tell her to get rid of the loser.
2006-07-10 16:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋