What is your definitions of love all i kno is i was all shakey and nerves and now hes gone and i cry evry nite

Question

i cry every nite and he left 2 months ago the only way i can comunicate with him is through his cuzin witch is sucky i cant really talk to himya kno!

Answer 1

I'm so sorry and I know how much it hurts!

Whether it was love, by *anyone's* definition, or not is irrelevant! The pain is pain, and that's what matters.

One thing I can tell you from personal experience is that it WILL get easier. I bet it's just a little easier already, isn't it? Don't your tears take just a little bit less of your breath away? Doesn't the empty feeling feel just a tiny bit smaller?

TRY (and the best you may be able to do is try) to focus on the good things you have. Try to put one foot in front of the other and do what needs to be done. And maybe consider not talking with his cousin, because that just keeps the wound open, so it can't heal.

Lots of people have gotten over a broken heart, and you will too. It takes time. But if it's taking too long, or seems more than you can bear, please talk to a professional counselor, or your pastor. They can help it hurt less.

Good luck, and gentle hugs.

Answer 2

Hmmm. In my experience, that usually means that you've gone hormonal. Everyone does. Men. Women. Old and young. Some more than others. So, it becomes sorta like a fix. Without the one you love to rush the hormones you suffer withdrawal. It takes time for that rush to die down to normal, live every day love.