2006-07-10 15:41:51 · 20 answers · asked by companykid101 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Well anyone would be lying if they said you won't be nervous on your first few dates. But if your worried about where things will lead or what your date expects, it helps if you think about it beforehand and set your limits. Listen to your parents, even though they may seem full of BS, they actually have been in your shoes and learned some good lessons from it. Your still young and its important that you respect your parents rules and limits too. Also, think about what you want and don't want and use that to set firm limits. If your date wants to go beyond your limits its OK to say no and let them know that your not comfortable. If they are worth calling a boyfriend, they will respect that. If they don't, then they aren't worth your time...even if he's the cutest guy in school...trust me on this please!
Its important you understand that the world of dating can be complex if you let it. There can be many social pressures to do certain things and act a certain way. But, I bet you'll be suprised how much you'll be respected if you stand up for yourself by sticking to your limits.
If you ever feel worried about anything that happens in your dating life, you should talk to your parents or another adult your comfortable confiding in. It is very important to communicate your worries, doubts and questions to an adult you trust. It can make your teenage dating years much more easy to navigate!
Good Luck!!
2006-07-10 15:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only reason a Jr. High guy would go out with you is to brag to his friends that he felt you up or something. It's too soon for real dating.
2006-07-10 22:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jr. High may be a little young about dating. Take your time. You are only young once. After that you'll be an adult ALL your life. Have fun being a kid
2006-07-10 22:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in High School things were alot different but still I was nervous So my advice would be yes and also keep your guard up guys are not as Innocent as they may seem.
2006-07-10 22:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by tonya lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that any jr. high boy has your best interest in mind think again. Try being friends and forget about the whole BF/GF thing for awhile.
2006-07-10 22:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mike S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be very cautious! men are pigs and jr high is where it all starts! It only gets worst from there
2006-07-10 22:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by AutNum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U LIKE THE GUY AND HE LIKES U THEN U SHOULD B FINE BUT IF THE GUY IS CLEARELY BAD NEWS GET OUT AS SOON AS U CAN DON'T B NERVOUS IT'S JUST A GUY!
2006-07-10 22:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by panicluver! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please save your love strawberry for marriage.
DO NOT EVEN GO ON A DATE UNTIL YOU ARE 21!!!!! YOU WILL ONLY GET HURT!!!!
Middle school boys these days have been raised by the internet to think that 'buttsecks' is 'kewl'. They will dirty you up and leave you pregnant and alone.
STAY PURE. AVOID ALL MALES. I BEG YOU.
2006-07-10 22:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you shouldn't be able to date anyway. No one has money, which means you can't go anywhere or do anything without the help of your parents. Don't worry about it at all.
2006-07-10 22:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by craftykid22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more nervous about a girl.
2006-07-10 22:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋