i really like my friends older bro who's a senior, but im only a sophmore. most of the time, he acts like im just anothergirl, even though hes my friend. how do i tell him n wut do i do? HELP!
2006-07-10 15:13:49 · 4 answers · asked by Isabelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, does your friend know how you feel about her brother? Because if not, you might want to think about how dating her brother will affect your friendship, especially if things go sour between you and the brother or you and your friend. Second, has he put any signals out there that he might be interested in you? He may not see you as anything more than a friend but, the only way you will ever know is to sit him down and talk to him. Tell him that you value his friendship and do not want to jeopardize the relationship. Let him know that you will respect his decision, whatever he chooses, but that you find him attractive and would like to go out for lunch or dinner and a movie. You can switch up that order. The movie would just be something fun to do, something relaxed and without pressure, just enjoy the movie as if you were out with a friend. Don't expect kissing and hand holding and that other stuff. If it happens, great, just don't force it. Having lunch or dinner will allow you two to sit and talk more. Or, you could maybe go skating together at a rink. Again, a fun activity with lots of opportunity to get to know each other. You can invite a few other friends if you want it to feel more casual. Just be open and try not to be too upset if he doesn't see you as a love interest. His feelings may change over time, and they may not. Just remember, you are young and you will go through this many times. It's just a part of life and dating. Eventually, you will find the right person for you.
2006-07-10 15:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by jewel_of_queens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the guts, girl! ^_^ Just tell him what you feel for him. Be ready for his answer and reaction though.
2006-07-10 22:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by enigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start being REALLY REALLY NICE to him so you wouldn't just be like any other girl, take risk,don't do what other REALL REALLY girlie-girls do.
BE COOL LET YOUR INNERSELF COME OUT.
2006-07-11 09:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM! straight up walk to him, and tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels that same in any way. dont be shy and you'll feel better after you tell him.
2006-07-10 22:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by Angel E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋