2006-07-10 15:07:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many--not most--women have rape *fantasies*, which are a way different thing from wanting to be raped.
What makes fantasies sometimes go all the way to the edge is that they are just that, fantasies. Since the little fantasy doesn't get fulfilled, it gets bigger.
A woman may, for example, want her husband to be a bit more aggressive in the bedroom, but be embarrassed to say so, so the fantasy lingers. Then she embroiders it. Before long, she fantasizes rape by her husband. Then she thinks of a stranger; next, a gang of bikers. What she REALLY wants is for her husband to be a little bit more aggressive in the bedroom.
We sometimes dream of being fairy princesses, too, but I don't think most of us have the qualifications.
2006-07-10 15:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe we want to be desired so much to the point where a guy just can't control himself but not actually raped. Maybe do the roll play thing with someone you love and trust.
2006-07-10 15:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by sugarfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who have the fantasy of being "raped" are not talking about having a stranger assault them sexually. What they want is a controlled environment where her boyfriend/husband takes her forcibly. It's more of a role playing fantasy than reality.
2006-07-10 15:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's true. Females may want to be dominated at times, but not raped.
2006-07-10 15:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about most, but I guess I'm in the category that DOES NOT WANT TO BE RAPED. That ain't cool.
2006-07-10 15:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly a lengthy lengthy time period i became purely about sexually assaulted yet I nevertheless had trauma for a pair of years. i ought to cry each and each and every of the time and did not favor to have a boyfriend or something jn that nature. It took me about 5 years to finally settle on that it became time for me to have a boyfriend yet regardless of the indisputable fact that I wasn't raped so i became able to easily have sexual kinfolk. I nevertheless imagine of the incident each and every right here n there n that's been over 10 years because it has befell. All i will allow you to recognize is that I nevertheless N will by no potential ignore what befell to me n I nevertheless cry about it when I see or listen something that reminds me of it. all i will claim is you want to talk including her n allow her do not ignore that you recognize something is incorrect because the way she pushes u away and reacts. tell her regardless of that is that is alright to be mad and react like this yet that she needs to be strong and by no potential have that difficulty run her existence!! i understand she is scarred in each and every way achievable yet that she needs to no longer allow that difficulty run her existence because she is by no potential going to bypass on that way!! I dont understand if she sees counseling yet you could continually help her n bypass w her!! that's not her fault n she benefits happiness too!! in ordinary words problem is that that is as a lot as you to be sure in case you'd be able to administration all of this incase she would not get extra perfect...... once you get close tk her or fairly all of us in that nature her thoughts instruments her decrease back to the terrible thoughts of what befell to her a lengthy time period in the past. She begins reliving the horror all once extra..., that is why she cries n curls up in a ball because she tries tk ignore about it yet finally it retains on haunting her..... If U fairly love her u want to inform her and easily be able to be w her each and each and every of ways in the course of this difficulty and make efficient u understand her n easily be there for her! do not push her on no longer something sexual..... she must be the single waiting to do the bypass because in her difficulty that's the in ordinary words way she will be able to bypass ahead.
2016-11-06 04:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some what yes it a put on but it could be turn on his hands all over doing as he wants with you just lay back in joy your self it can be alot of fun
2006-07-13 08:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by mybra44ee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way they may want a sexy aggressive guy but never that. Aint right its jus wrong foreal though
2006-07-10 15:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, someone gave you bad advice. Tell you what, I wouldn't ask that person for advice again!
2006-07-10 15:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dominated yes raped no way!
2006-07-10 15:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋