I'm currently dating this guy and he has straight-up "baby momma drama". We've been dating for three months now and it seems that ever since the baby was born the drama gets worse. She currently lives with him because of her current living situation. She knows that I exist and is trying to take up all of his time by using the baby as an excuse.
2006-07-10 14:59:29 · 6 answers · asked by sexxyredcaramel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He helped her find a house and she will be moving out at the end of this month (thank God). Should I wait until after she moves out to see if things change?
2006-07-10 15:49:56 · update #1
I do understand how you feel and she is probably just doing any and everything to p*** you off..but the fact remains that she is the mother of his child and he has a child.. the baby should come first always!!! and judging on what you are saying he seems to be doing just that... maybe you should back-off a little.. yes tell him how you feel but don't put added pressure on him he has a lot to handle right now(the ex)... ya'll have only been seeing each other for three months and now that the baby is here you might want to rethink how you feel about him and what you expect from the relationship and talk to him about it.. he might not be able to give you what you need and want right now and that is all of him...Good Luck!!!
2006-07-10 15:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If things do change,it won't be right away.Dating three months?Do you really think that they are finished with each other?They are in the same house.There's gonna be drama and more drama because she knows that you are in the picture,and you don't like the arrangement that they have.Not to mention the fact that they have a baby together she's gonna want him around all the time,that's gonna fuel the fire even more.Your best bet as far as I'm concerned is to let it go and move on.Three months is not a long time.You should be able to let go,unless you are so angry at what's going on that you in some way want to help keep this drama alive.He has a responsibility to the baby not her.If he was so concerned about what you thought,he would have never moved her in.Think about it.
2006-07-10 23:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let's see. You've been dating a man for three months, and he lives with his ex and his baby, and it's been a real problem since his baby was born....hmmm....She is trying to take up all his time regarding the baby??? You should be slapped, and so should he. You need to dump him, until he moves out, and he needs to make sure he is spending LOTS of time with his baby! Grow up. My God.
2006-07-10 22:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Maitri* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to man the f u c k up or you are gone
Dont get caught up in that
The baby momma knows what she is doing and she still wants him, so she is using what she can.
If he loves you , he would help her get her own place so the drama ends there or send her home to her momma
2006-07-10 22:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by !@#$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your asking yourself should I still date the "Baby Mama Drama King"?
Then don't you think it's time to drop him?
He's going to be in this drama for the rest of his life (I'm going with a guess that he is the Daddy) and as long as your with him, you will be "living" with it too.
2006-07-10 22:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him girl. You don't need to put up with this. Like she doesn't have any family to go to? And to top it off, she knows he has you. No way!
2006-07-10 22:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by jestelap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋