We've been dating for a month and our phone conversations, text and instant messaging have never been regular. It's been 3 days since I last heard from him. He told me he's not seeing anyone else, and I'm not either, but we haven't had the "exclusive" talk yet. After how many days of not hearing from him should I just assume he's no longer interested? Is this normal at all or is he not just that into me?
2006-07-10 14:51:31 · 15 answers · asked by G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for your answers. Here are some more details. Sometimes he calls and texts me first, sometimes it's me, so he knows I'm interested. He's a medicine student and he has hospital rounds M-F and work on weekends. I know he's very busy but it takes little effort to call/text and say hi. Am I wrong to expect this from him? I just don't like the "irregularity" of the situation. It doesn't have to be everyday, but maybe every 2-3 days so at least I know when to expect. Am I wrong in wanting this?
2006-07-10 15:02:53 · update #1
I'm 24 and a graduate student. I'd like to be in a normal and healthy relationship. I'm so tired of the dating scene and I just can't imagine myself even seeing two guys at the same time, even if I'm not in an exclusive relationship yet. I hope this works, but if not, I'd like to have closure and move on right away so I'm not wasting my time anymore. I don't literally wait for the phone to ring. I have a life, too, but it would be nice if he is more interested in what's going on with me. I don't like to play games, but if I'm too straightforward, he might get scared and leave.
2006-07-10 15:07:53 · update #2
Don't put up with a guy if you feel he is not gving you the attention you need. The relationship will not work out as you can already see. Find a boyfriend who will spend time with you and treat you as his main priority. No one deserves someone who won't even take the time to talk to them. You deserve better! :)
2006-07-10 14:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by deadly_nightshade5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea perchance your boring. be interesting. textual content jokes to open the convo up. and likely if he loved you he may have come at you too yet adult males r somewhat slower than us. so yea call him and search for suggestion from from him... yet before you do imagine about what you pick to discuss or write it down. it receives a lot less puzzling upon getting gotten over the extent of omg he's so wonderful n only pick him... be actual is he quite all that enormous? and if he's then bypass for it. if he remains an similar way then dont waste a even as feeding his ego by technique of texting him each and each and every of the time. make him chase you a lil bit... dont answer his rattling texts (even as it calls for an answer) and see how he likes it. lol.
2016-12-01 00:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's point of view, I can tell you. . . . 3 days is kinda of catch 22 situation meaning, could be blowing you off or could be just busy and pre-occupied, I would give it maybe a another day or so, but dont get to hopefull. . . .give it a day or so and if nothing then make the call yourself and ask the guy point blank. . . .
2006-07-10 14:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by emtff115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEATHER is right, one week, but that doesn't mean you LITERALY wait by the phone. Besides, you should be dating other men. Be pragmatic and open to new experiences (depends if your older and tired of the games). If your in your 20's and you are READY and UNDERSTAND what it is to be in a commited relationship, I suggest you just date till you get tp your late 20's, early 30's.
It's just my opinion, but I THINK it's the best course for you.
2006-07-10 14:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is into you he will call, let him wonder about you The key is to see if he is about playing games play the game back don't call because some guys let their egos take over by thinking she wants me so I don't have to show her I'm into her because she calls and waits for me to call and sometimes they don't call because they might be afraid because the relationship is moving to fast.
2006-07-10 15:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait about another 2 days untill the weekend saturday night or sunday night and if he hasn't called you then call him and have the exclusive talk.
2006-07-10 15:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him until Weds. It takes really little effort to send someone a text or call them and just say hi. He obviously has other things taking up his time.
2006-07-10 14:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by SegaGenocide 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww, don't you just hate that 'where are we in our relationship'? feeling?!
It's weird.. And how do you really have the talk without being possessive or over bearing?!
He's still into you... Obviously you know the book, obviously it is the middle of summer... Call or text him... Just do it once..
That should give you your answer :)
2006-07-10 14:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him 2 more days. Sometimes a guy thinks that if he hurries and calls you he may seem desperate or he may scare you off.
Hope things go well!!
2006-07-10 14:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by natasha s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 hour
2006-07-10 14:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋